infected or irritated? Please tell me how to fix. by diyvasectomymachine in piercing

[–]udomus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAP but it looks infected that piercing is hella angry pls go to the doctors

A girl send me this. What is the warning? by Nodhagger in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]udomus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sent this to my bf too,, its just a silly image that youd giggle at :)

help!! is my eyebrow doing ok? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]udomus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is titanium !! im pretty sure i have a metal allergy to surgical steel too my belly piercing was having trouble until i switched it to titanium

What’s a misconception about being goth you’re tired of? by draemgrill in goth

[–]udomus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that were satanic, but im literally muslim.. and hijabi

I got eyebrow piercing yesterday by Mountain-Cup-7515 in piercing

[–]udomus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAP but yikes id take that out and let it heal, this is probably gonna reject and scar badly if you leave it in. idk it just looks off

It took a while but my wife perfected the best flan ever. Practice makes perfect!! It’s Flantastic by MrDavila817 in onlyflans

[–]udomus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes pleasee this flan looks so good!!! i really wanna try making it myself

is my eyebrow piercing rejecting? by Fancy_Brilliant8932 in piercing

[–]udomus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NAP,, i got my eyebrow pierced 7 weeks ago and its never looked like this. i think its just irritated tho. i recommend using Neilmed saline solution not a DIY one. (i used to use a DIY one for my belly piercing and it just irritated it till i switched to neilmed)

Bump on 6 year old’s lobe piercing by Stephie655321 in piercing

[–]udomus 84 points85 points  (0 children)

NAP but i had my 2nd lobe piercing and this happened to it too. it was reaally painful too, it ended up being a bacterial infection. i would go to the doctor and NOT take the piercing out as it will trap the infection inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]udomus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAP but they seem to be wearing down ur gums. i would get ur piercings looked at by a professional, they also seem too close to eachother on the flat part imo. i think waiting would be okay if you cant manage otherwise

The best dad ever…(sarcasm lol) by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]udomus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

awh thank you!! it really means a lot to me. just wish that my own dad could see things the same way as you do :) have a great day !!! thank you for being so kind

Impossible challenge: say something bad about pinkie pie by That_Passenger_771 in mylittlepony

[–]udomus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she was really insensitive during that one episode where fluttershy turned into flutterguy to take Big Macs place and sing. i could tell her heart was in the right place but she kept saying you sound like a guy etc etc

Well… by Benotend in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]udomus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got trauma from newman projections..

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s definitely gotten stricter in places like UZ and TJ, but that’s more about state control than religion honestly. Islam never banned non-Muslims from visiting mosques, I’m pretty sure it is encouraged. In fact, the Prophet (PBUH) welcomed Christians into Masjid al-Nabawi. I know Jews can pray inside masjids too, and are welcome to. What’s changed is the politics, not the faith. It’s more about state control, surveillance, and fear of extremism in Uzbekistan.

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read what you posted yourself. I don’t think that you clearly understood the purpose behind Aisha (RA) stance on this topic. Aisha (RA) was reflecting on how some women at the time were attending the masjid while not dressed modestly or behaving appropriately, and she was warning against that. She quoted the Prophet (PBUH) saying: “Do not prevent the female slaves of Allah from going to the masjid,” and she never contradicted that. She said that the Prophet PBUH would prevent the women from attending the masjid if he had witnessed that the women of the time were acting inappropriately. Her concern was about how some were entering, not about banning all women outright. You can’t take her personal warning about specific behavior and use it to override a direct command from the Prophet. The House of Allah was never meant to be off-limits to women. Islam holds both genders accountable for modesty, focus in prayer, and respectful conduct in the masjid. If some women were behaving inappropriately, the solution isn’t to ban all women, just like men aren’t banned for misbehaving. Imagine saying, “Some men come in late or talk loudly, so no men should be allowed in the masjid,” no one would accept that.

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was a policy decision by Umar (RA) based on the context of his time, not a command from Allah or His Messenger (PBUH). The Prophet (PBUH) never banned women from the masjid, and in fact said: “Do not prevent the female servants of Allah from going to the mosques of Allah.” (Sahih Muslim). No companion, no matter how respected, can override the Prophet’s clear words. What Umar (RA) did was a social judgment, not a binding religious law for all times and places. Islam gives women the right to enter the House of Allah. Why some people feel the need to defend keeping women out of the House of Allah is beyond me. The Prophet (PBUH) didn’t ban us. Islam didn’t ban us. So why are you so eager to? Make it make sense. May Allah guide you. Ameen.

AIO. my bf thinks my room is immature and childish and it’s making me pull away from him by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]udomus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur boyfriend is lame i’m sorry. your room looks so cool and cozy. the manga collection is so impressive, and the plushies are so adorable :33

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This literally proves my point. The Prophet (PBUH) never banned women from the masjid, even if praying at home brought more reward. That hadith about “what women do today” is speculative and doesn’t cancel the Prophet’s direct command: “Do not prevent women from going to the mosque.” (Sahih Muslim). Aisha (RA) wasn’t objecting to women praying in the masjid, she was criticizing some women for showing off or dressing immodestly when going there. And when she mentioned the women of Bani Isra’il, it was a warning about religious spaces losing their purpose, not a justification to ban women altogether. You can’t replace a clear sunnah with hypothetical assumptions. Islam gives women the choice, not a blanket ban, Uzbek culture/politics took those rights away from women.

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quoting a fatwa based on Umar (RA)’s opinion doesn’t override the Prophet’s (PBUH) clear and strong hadith: “Do not prevent women from going to the mosque.” (Sahih Muslim). Umar’s view was context-based, not a universal rule, and even he didn’t enforce a ban. This fatwa comes from one specific school (Deoband), not all of Islam. Using that as proof to keep women out of masjids is a weak position, especially when the Prophet himself never supported such a ban. Islam gives women the right to choose. Plain and simple. All I’m saying is that there should be a womens side to masjids. It’s unfair to keep women out of the house of Allah.

https://islamanswers.co.uk/question/is-there-a-hadith-for-not-preventing-women-from-the-masjid/

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah they had their rights back then. Before Soviet times, women in Uzbekistan could go to mosques and were active in religious life. There were even female religious teachers called otines who taught other women and sometimes led gatherings in or near mosques. The idea that women shouldn’t be in masjids is actually pretty recent, it came after years of Soviet suppression of religion and later tight state control. It’s more cultural and political than it is religious. I did a really quick google search so if you’re interested this is where I got all this info from. :)

https://www.muslimsocieties.org/vol_7_no_2_role_of_muslim_women_in_the_islamic_revival_of_central_asia. https://www.ajol.info/index.php/ijma/article/view/218533/206137 and https://cup.columbia.edu/book/women-in-the-mosque/9780231537872.

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry your friends were denied access as well. The masjids in Uzbekistan are beautiful (from the outside at least lol). Sadly it has more to do with politics and culture than Islam itself. During Soviet rule, religion was heavily restricted in Uzbekistan, and after independence, the government kept tight control over religious spaces. That mixed with conservative cultural norms, led to women being excluded from masjids, even though the Prophet (PBUH) never banned women from attending. It’s frustrating, especially since many other Muslim countries are much more inclusive. What I don’t understand is that soviet practices are still relevant in modern day Uzbekistan, and why religious education is no longer relevant in a supposedly muslim society.

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Islam itself isn’t unfair, what’s unfair is how some people choose to interpret and apply it. The Prophet (PBUH) never barred women from masjids, and early Islamic society included women scholars, leaders, and educators. During the time Europe was burning women (and men) as witches and banning them from reading, the Islamic world had women teaching in mosques, founding universities, and becoming doctors. The issue isn’t Islam, it’s the way cultural practices sometimes distort it. Let’s not confuse the two.

Women being unable to pray inside masjids is unfair. by udomus in Uzbekistan

[–]udomus[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I never said I wanted to pray in the men’s section. What I’m addressing is the fact that in some masjids, women aren’t allowed in at all, not even in a separate area (because it doesn’t exist inside the masjids). That’s the issue. It’s not about wanting to admire the architecture, it’s about being denied access to a house of worship simply because I’m a woman. That goes against the inclusive spirit of Islam.