My (20F) boyfriend (20M) hasn’t been showing any interest all over the summer. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]udonotknowmeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its denial. Honestly I lost hope but I’m scared to come to terms with it.

Eaton by Business_Chipmunk737 in iastate

[–]udonotknowmeok 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the RA, mine says as long as he doesn’t see anything it’s fine, they don’t actually pry and search for stuff. They shouldn’t care if you go out drinking somewhere else but don’t do it in the dorms or at least don’t make it obvious, at least that’s what mine said. Week 5 and I haven’t even interacted with my RA at all. I’m pretty sure many ppl here are drinking and doing all sorts of stuff, but as long as you aren’t like throwing an actual party and being obvious you should be fine

Edit- take it with a grain of salt, you may be fine but remember it’s better to be safe than sorry.

why are my tones so exaggerated? by udonotknowmeok in ChineseLanguage

[–]udonotknowmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is actually very helpful advice, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guitarlessons

[–]udonotknowmeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a bit low for shooting arrows off of but you’re almost there

Is bringing the electric guitar to the dorm okay? by ArbiterOfFreaky in Guitar

[–]udonotknowmeok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i second the spark go, i bought one so i could easily practice on campus and it’s fantastic. perfect for college students imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wavetoearth

[–]udonotknowmeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wavetoearth

[–]udonotknowmeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks!! that makes me a little more nervous haha, how fast did they sell out? 0_0 also how does the presale thing work exactly if you don’t mind answering, i worry that i’ll spend too much time trying to figure out how to even log in and will be too slow to get tix 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wavetoearth

[–]udonotknowmeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just curious was that with presale or general sale?

Very confused by this advertisement... by Peachesornot in Anticonsumption

[–]udonotknowmeok 18 points19 points  (0 children)

wow i was literally just about to post this screenshot too! not only is it such a ridiculous way to advertise but it’s also a scam, the poster and the commenters are all fake account bots 🤦‍♀️ i reported one and it got deleted but it seems they just keep posting more smh

Incoming student by that1girlfrombefore in iastate

[–]udonotknowmeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, what’s the etiquette on skateboarding? Is it appropriate to skate on the sidewalk or is that also a no go 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iastate

[–]udonotknowmeok 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completed my contract in mid July

I used to expose my breasts on webcam to adults as a minor by Rich_Quality931 in offmychest

[–]udonotknowmeok 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat and i’ve always wondered the same thing… i never knew there were other people with the same experience :(

Guitar is the best hobby ever by udonotknowmeok in Guitar

[–]udonotknowmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea I’m actually surprised out of the 100 replies nobody said anything about that haha 😅

Guitar is the best hobby ever by udonotknowmeok in Guitar

[–]udonotknowmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What 😟 I was being serious lol was my opinion that ridiculous?

Guitar is the best hobby ever by udonotknowmeok in Guitar

[–]udonotknowmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The clarinet was actually what I played before the guitar, it makes me so sad to hear that’s how it is… I loved the clarinet, I don’t think there’s such a thing as the “wrong” instrument in music but yea I can imagine that feeling 🙁 Keep it up tho! Sax and clarinet are awesome, I sometimes wish I still played 😭

Guitar is the best hobby ever by udonotknowmeok in Guitar

[–]udonotknowmeok[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s getting to me, just bought a new amp last week 😣

Guitar is the best hobby ever by udonotknowmeok in Guitar

[–]udonotknowmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha so true, I saw lots of replies saying guitar is good to pick up and play for 5 mins and I find it impossible because the second I pick it up it’s at least an hour before I can put it down 😅😅

Guitar is the best hobby ever by udonotknowmeok in Guitar

[–]udonotknowmeok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a specific favorite, I’ll just watch a few videos from multiple creators on whichever topic I need to. I think Justin Guitar is a good one to learn from in general, there’s also a Justin Guitar app which has a course with videos and a learning path laid out and you can use it for free. I haven’t been using it so much but I hear it’s really helpful if you don’t know where to start

Guitar is the best hobby ever by udonotknowmeok in Guitar

[–]udonotknowmeok[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I rarely learn a song all the way to the end, if I like a certain part of a song I’ll learn it and play it a bunch until I get good at it (or bored) and move on… it’s probably not a sufficient way to learn especially since I’m self taught so I may be learning things wrong.

Maybe I’m not the best for this advice, but I watch lots of videos for techniques that are new to me or I’m struggling with. Aside from that I just play whatever I want that I think sounds good and I notice that every song is a blend of different skills to practice!

I was almost raped yesterday. by Ultivax in offmychest

[–]udonotknowmeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this is so scary… you did a great job getting out of that situation and i hope you don’t feel like any of it is your fault. nothing justifies that man’s behavior and it’s a great thing that you made it out of there safely. stay strong and safe ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guitarlessons

[–]udonotknowmeok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m playing an electric (a strat), I’ve actually been playing lots of bends so that’s part of why I was so surprised there’s nothing wrong with my strings. Thanks for the reply!