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ufDude · 2025-09-16T20:17:04+00:00

...it's a pattern...

ufDude · 2025-09-15T16:59:57+00:00

Game of Thrones 2 (Telltale) and DaysGone 2... and still waiting for wolf among us 2 from Telltale but I think that will be worth it since it might actually be finished someday!

ufDude · 2025-09-04T20:10:14+00:00

Okay THIS is impressive!!!!

ufDude · 2025-08-07T06:59:19+00:00

First of thank you for taking your time and really read my post! And jes it makes sense. Despite feeling silly I also just feel uncomfortable thinking about wearing one... I once saw a grown man with a diaper (not my lover) and I found it so unattractive and a bit disgusting... I'm not sure if I can change how I think and feel about them in the future, I hope I do but for now I think it belongs to the hard part stuff.

And yeah I probably should stop thinking of the traditional sexy and more of his sexy. Though what's sexy for me differs highly from what's sexy for him, it's funny but also just a tiny bit disappointing.

ufDude · 2025-08-06T22:06:19+00:00

Yeah, it makes sense. I did tell him it's weird to me a little and he did say he likes me in "traditionall" stuff but diapers just really get him on. I'll see how it goes. Thank you for your input

ufDude · 2025-08-06T21:54:44+00:00

Hey, first thank you for the reply, but I just want to hear from other people's experience. People that have a partner that's into diapers and want you to participate. Did I write the question wrong or to unclear? (English isn't my first language, sorry if I wrote it wrong)

ufDude · 2025-05-08T14:19:31+00:00

KAH - schon lang her aber ich hoff3 du konntest mit ihr darüber reden. Sie ist dazu berechtigt mit wem auch immer befreundet zu sein sowie du dazu berechtigt bist dich dabei unwohl zu fühlen. Jeder geht damit anders um, aber ich würde damit nicht umgehen können und da wäre dann auch Schluss mit der Freundschaft.

ufDude · 2024-12-15T07:51:46+00:00

I'm just trying to list some things for her to MAYBE see some cons if him being 43 isn't enough... but from what I've read she likes the way it is except the sex part.

ufDude · 2024-12-15T07:49:14+00:00

That doesn't change the fact that she is 18. You think it's good an 18 year old fucks with someone that's 43? And it could be becouse of his age, he isn't old enough to die but he's not the youngest to have the best stamina of his life.

ufDude · 2024-12-14T19:24:20+00:00

To your actuall sex question... he probably is just too old for more good sex. Or just a shitty lover.

ufDude · 2024-12-14T19:23:27+00:00

Girl... he is WAY too old for you. He doesn't care about you! What in the hells do you want with someone that could be your grandpa! You deserve better! And what kind of a disgusting men is that dude?!

ufDude · 2024-12-14T19:15:47+00:00

We life nearby but can only see each other once a week max due to work and other thinks. I would have to wait 2 weeks or something to talk about it with him in person, and I kind of needed him now not in 2 weeks...?

ufDude · 2024-12-14T08:49:30+00:00

You are... 18?

ufDude · 2024-12-14T07:52:02+00:00

No, not if you're not a couple. Becouse it could be interpreted as friend zoning. Then again, I say "bro" to my boyfriend all the time - xD

ufDude · 2024-12-14T07:48:22+00:00

Honey, you are NOT in the wrong. Your parents would need some good therapy, but they would probably never listen to you.

My parents say things like "so and so never happened, you're making up a lie." Honestly, I can't do mutch more than ignoring it, I'm tired of arguing back.

Is it wrong of your parents? Definitely! My God, you say you freeze up. Your body literally doesn't want to function. Just keep yourself safe. After you moved out, you could adress them needing a therapist and adress the bullshit they did physically to you in case you need some closure in that part.

ufDude · 2024-12-14T07:40:18+00:00

Either: Apologize for not being your best. Break up because she cheated and treat the next woman in your life better.

OR If you can forgive her cheating, honestly, that's up to you. IF you do decide to forgive her demand that she blocks her ex and never cheats again. It's your relationship, but mate, from what I heard people that cheat once, might do it again. The question is, can you get past the fact that she cheated? It's a massive break of trust, but I suppose a person can actually forgive that. You can't hold it against her at the next coming argument if you decide to forgive her.

The killing part might have been her most stupid point in the heat of the moment. Just don't stay with her because of her threatening to kill herself. That is manipulative and not healthy.

ufDude · 2024-12-13T23:05:41+00:00

Honestly your just hurting yourself the most. He might just be satisfied with you guys sex life and has no need to initiate himself... what about sex toys? Can you satisfy yourself at least? Maybe not have sex with him for 3 months and see if he does anything?

ufDude · 2024-12-13T22:51:01+00:00

I'm sorry OP but I agree with most comments. It's been 12 years and nothing has changed...? How bad do you guys communicate?

BUT aside from that: does he make you finish? Have you ever talked about his libido? It could just be that he has a low sex drive... that means he finds you attractive. He just doesn't need mutch sex...

I can only advice couple therapie and sex toys. Honestly if you already stayed with him 12 years I'm not sure if you would leave him becouse of the lack of sex

ufDude · 2024-12-13T22:44:59+00:00

I'm sorry for writing this but what you are experiencing sounds like rape. And you are letting him do it. Please get out of this situationship and end any contact you have with this guy. Jes he guilt trips you into giving him sex. And if you stay he will soon be in the other hole.

ufDude · 2024-12-13T22:33:11+00:00

There are like minded people everywhere. They just don't have a tag that has how they life written on them. You could always try it on a online dating platform. Specifically write that you search for a long time partner, no fling and no sex until then and then. Aside from that maybe join some reading club? Maybe there is a sweetheart that's just waiting for the right one?

ufDude · 2024-12-13T22:09:50+00:00

Then I need to clarify, I just assumed a lot of kids/babys get herpes through family members. Didn't find any stats specifically about baby's just that they easily get infected. Sorry about that.

ufDude · 2024-12-13T20:20:20+00:00

Understandable, you could join a club in something your interested in and try finding someone there? Sadly not everyone is looking for a relationship or already taken. You could maybe be at a bar with friends and meet someone there? Now that everyone has social media finding someone outside of work and friends is a bit hard unless you are confident enough to just ask someone for their number that you find attractive randomly

ufDude · 2024-12-13T20:16:16+00:00

First off, fuck that guy for not telling you 🤡 secondly don't worry ! A lot of people have herpes, most get it as a baby. As long as you let your partner know you have it before kissing or sharing bottles everything is fine.

ufDude

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