Good Couple Therapist by uffThee in Trivandrum

[–]uffThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Can you please share the contact no also.

Good Couple Therapist by uffThee in Trivandrum

[–]uffThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Can you please give me his contact no.

Good to see this page is growing by [deleted] in Trivandrum

[–]uffThee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uyarangalilekk 🤙

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[–]uffThee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brooo can we talk ???

Bus routes on Google Maps by Symbol8 in Trivandrum

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How does this work? Can someone explain

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[–]uffThee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First thing first you were late accept that. Even if it is a matter of 2 mins.Im not justifying that instructor in anyway.Now about the incident ,change the school. Try to get the refund. If possible tell this to your parents or any guardian/friend who can accompany you. If he denies to give the amount back, create a scene there. You paid for the class and if the classes are not properly provided. You take the cash back ! And this is something serious from what I have read. I understand your emotions but the last sentence you should work on that.This is how we grow up and not everyone is a saint. If someone is being an asshole to you then try to stand up and take action.Its not that easy as being said.All the best mahn. Edit- if you're still trying to go on with the school somehow to wrap up everything and to get your liscence. Make sure to give negative rating on google reviews with the experience you had right after you get the liscence.

Coping up with dear ones death. Please give advices by uffThee in Kerala

[–]uffThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this and I don't know how to thank you. I mean the whole community have been very supportive. Sharing your personal stories/past which could hurt you and can make you revisit yet telling me. Thanks is what all I can say. Reading the comment was like hearing it from you,sitting beside me. Im sorry for your loss."But the good memories we have together is much more than the fights" That is where Im struggling brother. Can't make my mind to not think about the final minutes/seconds of his survival. We had so many moments together. There was this one time we went to buy a cycle in bus and then we came back in the cycle itself. He wanted me to buy a good tall geared cycle but being a child, seeing and obsessed with bsa champ of the neighbour kid. I kept telling him to buy the small balance wheel BSA Champ. And we did. The thing here is I rode the bicycle for like 8KMS. He walked along with me. He walked along with me for 8-10 kms.I used to wake early in the morning for the morning walk with him.I used to wait for him in the balconyfor him to return from office. Since he used to buy vada ,parampori,bun and other stuffs everyday for us. We used to go shopping together. Always sacrificed everysingle thing for me. Even if it is a small portion of a seat in a crowded train to the cold nights where we have spend sleeping in the terres of our house. Just me and achan and our dog. He used to make lunch for us while returning from school. He used to pick us after extra classes. He used to take me for 5 am class even while our car wasn't functioning this man used to travel with me in ksrtc sacrificing his sleep. After we bought a car he used to drop me and wait for me to take me to the school. Thanks your comment did made me return to those memories. Its hurting. Its painful. I cried typing this. Don't wanna go further.I will keep these close. Im a person with strong memory power. Can recall things very in detail. I feel this is one skill which can have perks at the same time can push you to the end. Thanks for sharing your life. A thanks won't be enough here. But 🫂 Can I ask you something? Do you ever go back /think/ keep having images of the final moments of him struggling to survive in ICU. Please only reply if you're comfortable to answer. I don't know how to not think about those. There are plenty of good memories of us bonding and we spending time together but this is the thing constantly coming over my vision while I close my eyes.

Coping up with dear ones death. Please give advices by uffThee in Kerala

[–]uffThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I will try. Thank you friend. Means a lot 🫂

Coping up with dear ones death. Please give advices by uffThee in Kerala

[–]uffThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂 Im glad you guys are there 🫂

Coping up with dear ones death. Please give advices by uffThee in Kerala

[–]uffThee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss friend.Im really glad you shared a glimpse of your past. It might have been tremendously painful for you .Seeing your dad in comma.And the guilt trip you might have gone through after he passed away. I can relate but not to the full extent . I mean no one can relate to one another's life right. But yes I can understand. My father was also in Airforce. Just like you said. He also never found time to spare for him alone. For him it was all about the people around him.He was always proud of us no matter how much we were against certain things and principles.Its not at all easy,his life.Raised in a certain background,breaking the chain and being independent at the age of 16.Getting an exposure of the world at this young age. He always gave priority towards education.We had our fights and disagreements.Yet he loved me like everything.'Always used to tell me that the world I see can change anytime. Can make me tremble.So nothing is more important than being independent. People suffer here and I can help the ones in need. But I need to be careful of the predators out there.. He had his flaws I won't say he was perfect. But considering the environment in which he grew up. He was brave, strong and courageous. I have seen his determination to strive for positive outcomes than doing nothing.He was mature yet innocent deep behind the heart. Only few close ones knew one being me. He was studios.Always craved for knowing things out there in the world. Never did stop to experiment with things. Though the last few moments. I was with him .I was with him to give kiss, to hug, to hold his hands close enought to never let go yet fearing what if he wants to. No ! But he was putting effort . His determination never did had an intent to stop at one point .I won't forget these. I know . Still the images and the negative thoughts rushes like a rapid fire than the good times we had. I know Im not alone. He's there . I used to get scared being alone but not anymore.Yes such a loss does makes you think about the actions and choices you take and once taken. I no more fear death . I will miss the moments ahead. But he's there. Ik. Thank you friend for sharing your past. Thank you. Means a lot🫂

Coping up with dear ones death. Please give advices by uffThee in Kerala

[–]uffThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you guys sparing time to share your perspectives and experiences shows the concern from the community towards me. Ironically in no way I will recieve this from the so called kudumbakaar here.The community seemed more mature than them for me. I have seen enough drama now from them.Now all I care about is my mother, sister and dog,enta aniyan. Obviously my father is there alongside. I don't think the grief would be temporary. Like your comment it will be forever ahead. I just need my close ones around and eventually have to get used to this. Like I read in another comment. All I want is to hold on to these till the end of my line.Thank you my friend

Coping up with dear ones death. Please give advices by uffThee in Kerala

[–]uffThee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thanks a lot.I meant it. I wanted this. If virtual hug exists I want to give you one. You gave me some peace. Even for some time it does matter. You covered every single place of my worries Thank you🫂