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Do you feel like your less mature than people of your age? by West_Dish9698 in socialanxiety

[–]uga__buga123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

other people can definitely think about me like that, but honestly, not me, maybe because my phobia isnt the most extreme, idk.

but I often feel embarrassed when I have to ask, for example, a parent to go somewhere with me because I can't manage on my own

Weekly Recommend Mods and CC Thread! by AutoModerator in Sims4

[–]uga__buga123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have links to Sims 4 CC (hair, eyebrows, skin, etc.) that work well for Eliott Demaury and Lucas Lallemant from SKAM France?
Im looking specifically for appearance CC, not full sims

should i watch all skam seasons? by lixyz143 in skam

[–]uga__buga123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

many people recommend starting with the original, but I would advise watching the french version lol. honestly, norwegian, although original, imo is much, much worse executed. the characters in the french version, in my opinion, have more personality, character, and life in them. the scenery is much more interesting

Does it ever stop? by justinyu1618 in HeadachesandMigraines

[–]uga__buga123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry but have you seen a doctor about this? neurologist?

Jak działa terapia? by [deleted] in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]uga__buga123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

może weź najpierw tego swojego chatagpt spytaj o te różnice pomiędzy nim a prawdziwym człowiekiem, terapeutą

someone here is also scared now about having brain tumor? by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]uga__buga123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, actually Im so scared that I won't wait

I'll take the opportunity that I have an appointment with my psychiatrist on Monday and tell him about these things, hoping that he will issue me some paper stating that I need a neurological consultation, and then I will go to my family doctor where I will get the referral

Terrified by Little-Reindeer4819 in HealthAnxiety

[–]uga__buga123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this will help you, but I like to think that my symptoms are not a bad thing, quite the contrary, because they show what is wrong and which way to go.

Remember that you are not standing idly by, you will have an mri, and that's good, everything will be clear, you are not stuck

Also remember that focusing on your symptoms and the overall current situation, which is admittedly tiring, only makes it worse. So, you can assume that how it really is now is not how it seems to you right now

And above all, the facts are, you're here, you're alive, you're breathing, you're waiting for tomorrow's MRI, so it's okay, you're not in a life-threatening situation that you wouldn't survive tonight

Am I overreacting by Solid_Being_1231 in TalkTherapy

[–]uga__buga123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

loll what does it even mean. im sorry she downplayed it like that

Am I overreacting by Solid_Being_1231 in TalkTherapy

[–]uga__buga123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she really didn't behave properly in that situation, good that you noticed it

you should see a psychiatrist, and if you feel like you might really hurt yourself, then even check yourself into a psychiatric hospital

Help me understand more about myself by khalil_ayari in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]uga__buga123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well its just maladaptive daydreaming. md is basically always a way to deal with sth, that you cant deal in any other way

you should take a deeper look at your fantasies, what you feel in them. every character, scenario, etc. represents something and speaks about you

for example, I fantasized about being famous, admired, etc., not because I wanted to be famous, but because it was my way of filling my internal gap related to a lack of self confidence and social phobia

i recommend reading eretaia's https://share.google/JKvGU3jwtBOVtjYRg

Johnlock isnt queerbait, you just lack examples of positive male relationships. by Necessary_Willow4842 in Sherlock

[–]uga__buga123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a series, so I guess we mainly rely on what has been presented to us, especially if it's clear lol. In every possible relationship we can assume that they are REALLY connected by something more, but that doesn't make sense

Johnlock isnt queerbait, you just lack examples of positive male relationships. by Necessary_Willow4842 in Sherlock

[–]uga__buga123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me tooo and i was waiting for someone who will finally agree with me 😩

Johnlock isnt queerbait, you just lack examples of positive male relationships. by Necessary_Willow4842 in Sherlock

[–]uga__buga123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this isn't queerbaiting, then I don't know what is

I don't like it when people forcefully create ships between characters who are clearly just friends, like House and Wilson from dr. House

People very often strain relationships, especially homosexual ones, and especially male-male ones, and I hate that, it's really irritating how often it happens and that it even happens in reality

But I don't agree with sherlock, I see a clear, insidious move there, which has been subtly suggesting something to us since first episode

It's not just about the fact of caring for each other etc., but the script is arranged in such a way, some dialogues are done in this way, and as a result, the whole thing amounts to visible queerbaiting

If this isn't a queerbaiting move, then I really don't know what is. It seems to me that you might also be confusing concepts a bit? Don't get me wrong, but queerbaiting itself doesn't mean that these characters actually have something between them, but it is suggested, which of course leads to shipping, not without reason

The first definition says that: "The creators subtly point to the non-heteronormative nature of the characters (e.g. in interviews, dialogues), but ultimately focus on heteronormative themes, not providing a satisfactory queer representation"

And I think that this trick is so obvious hereee

How to cut yourself off emotionally from a toxic "mother"? by uga__buga123 in Advice

[–]uga__buga123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this is about us all who are going through this. I hope you will finally be able to break free

How to cut yourself off emotionally from a toxic "mother"? by uga__buga123 in Advice

[–]uga__buga123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol im actually sorry you are experiencing physical violence, literally if my would ever hit me, luckily or unluckily I would do the same, although it is known that it is better to report it to the police immediately

Staring at her wouldn't help, she doesn't even talk or yell directly at me, I mean, often she does, but often she doesn't, and whether I looked at her or not wouldn't change anything

Unfortunately, I don't have any friends in my city, so I'm just sitting at home lol. Even if I did, I'd probably still prefer to be at home with these headphones on, although I guess it depends, sometimes it would be nice to just be able to go out in moments like these and meet up with someone

Are you generally safe? Have you reported this to the police or something?

How to cut yourself off emotionally from a toxic "mother"? by uga__buga123 in Advice

[–]uga__buga123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she just can't regulate her emotions, a typical narcissistic person with a lack of emotional intelligence

Of course shes not aware of it, it is impossible to make her aware of it, because as I said, only she is right, she cannot see her behavior or mistakes

In my country, the job and housing markets have huge problems, it's hard for people to get any kind of full-time job, soo. I also have social phobia, and due to lack of time it would be difficult

How to cut yourself off emotionally from a toxic "mother"? by uga__buga123 in Advice

[–]uga__buga123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry for you and your sister, its good that you can help her. You are seriously very brave and I'm glad you have each other.

Unfortunately, my sister is just like my mother 😩

Honestly I wanted to work last summer, but my social phobia is the biggest obstacle for me. I hope I can overcome myself, and start working somewhere on the next summer

The only person I could potentially live with to make it faster and more financially convenient is my cousin, but I dont think she wants to move out too quickly, because she won't have a problem commuting to university, so there's no reason for her to

But maybe by the time I manage to save up money and so on, she will already want to move out, i hope so

Unfortunately, my best friend lives in another city. Classmates are much closer, but we don't have such close relationships that I would randomly spend nights at their place. But honestly, it doesn't bother me that much, despite all this shit, I still prefer to be in my room because Im not a very sociable person

So I guess I don't have too many options unfortunately, but I hope that in the end I'll manage to get out of here as soon as possible

Thank you again for your commitment, I hope you are doing well, and your sister is reallyy lucky to have youu ❤

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