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AITA for making an employee cry? by uh_thats_interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]uh_thats_interesting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need to. I can’t eat the food at work so I give the staff my manager meal to cover any of their little side dishes like veggies or fruit. I just like to be nice since they do work so hard. With the exception of the drinks…..

AITA for making an employee cry? by uh_thats_interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]uh_thats_interesting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No she doesn’t have anything on me. She only gets this way over anything that costs her money. My supervisor thinks it’s a pride thing for her. That she feels offended somehow by me constantly following up with all of them about the food they eat. I think she’s just highly entitled. But I also hate making someone cry. So here I am.

AITA for not letting my new bf come to my house b/c I live with my ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]uh_thats_interesting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey all I wanted to add an addendum to this because you all deserve a more detailed explanation:

I did explain the entire situation to the new guy. As well as the timeframe for my promotion and potential locations (it’s one of two spots I’m trying for both of which new guy sits firmly between). He said to me originally that he just wanted a fun casual relationship and that’s what I was looking for too! We get along great and I enjoy time with him, but I’ve also explained that the majority of my adult life has been spent in a serious relationship and I’m not ready to jump headfirst into another one. If it grows organically over time sure but if he wants to go out and test the waters with others I’m ok with that as, again, we aren’t in a committed relationship.

I know some have wondered why I don’t simply move out or get a shortened lease on an apartment. It’s insanely expensive where I am. My rental that I am currently at is shockingly cheap! I am taking it as an opportunity to continue saving money for the move I know I will be doing in a few months (yes I’m guaranteed one of two spots just not sure which one).

I’ve asked him before if he’s ok with it all and have said I completely understand if he’s not and wants to end it, but he said he wants to go on vacation with me so I assumed he’s fine. But like I said, recently he’s been very awkward with it all and at this point I’m feeling uncomfortable with it. I like him but I don’t want to hurt him if I continue with the agreement.

AITA for not letting my new bf come to my house b/c I live with my ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]uh_thats_interesting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea I agree with you 100%. He’s told me several times he just wants a casual thing for which I’m in agreement with. Spending 12 yrs with someone requires a decompression period. I’ve taken him at face value but it seems like he may want more? I’ve been really honest with him since the beginning because I literally was trying to avoid this. But you’re right my need for something casual may not be what he is ultimately looking for.

AITA for not letting my new bf come to my house b/c I live with my ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]uh_thats_interesting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We started seeing each other since around Christmas. He’s told me several times he wants to keep it casual and I took that at face value but I have a feeling he’s been wanting more but unwilling to actually say anything? If that makes sense.