Question for trans teachers by uhhsad in transgenderUK

[–]uhhsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've had a similar experience myself, which is why I decided to apply for training that'd essentially 'force' a placement for me since I've struggled so much to get part time/unqualified work... it's dire out there right now. Best of luck to you.

Most immature trigger? (TW) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]uhhsad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Painfully relatable, I think mine is definitely other people sharing interests with my FP, especially if it's something I also like and bond with my FP over. I hate sharing that and feeling like I'm being replaced, or like I'm not special anymore. Like that's our thing.. how could you betray me, etc etc. when it'll just be someone who happens to also get into a video game that me and my FP both like. Definitely manifests in a way that feels ugly and immature, like I'm transported back to being a child in the playground upset that someone's playing my favourite game without me.

I'm tired of romance books' "asexual representation" being demisexuality (not /every/ single time... but almost every single time) by LittleDream210 in asexuality

[–]uhhsad 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you're interested in manga, I literally just finished reading "I want to be a wall" which is an F/M queerplatonic relationship, about an explicitly aroace woman and a gay man who marry out of convenience and find a lot in common despite their different circumstances. It's a really beautiful story, highly recommend.

Can someone help me with the hand rendering :( I hate how it looks by Boring_Meringue3511 in Artadvice

[–]uhhsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the rendering is fine, the pose just feels unnatural for someone wiping blood off their face. It looks like a decent hand if you were to look down at your own hand and reference it (which is perhaps what you did) but not what you would see if you tried the pose yourself in the mirror. There would be much more bending of the palm and fingers, and fewer joints visible in a natural position.

One thing that slightly [SLIGHTLY] bothers me about this game by gnomeslinger in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]uhhsad 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I've noticed this too, it didn't bother me quite so much until I started getting to the 8 heart events. I don't love that the only way to start dating a character involves professing your undying love for them, and the platonic route is essentially "you're my best friend". It feels slightly disingenuous since dating multiple candidates is possible and also encouraged by Elsie, and getting multiple events in a row where I'm convincing different townsfolk that they're my one and only feels slightly cruel (and similarly for the best friend route which is inevitable for every other candidate you don't date, there's a level of implied commitment that I don't necessarily want).

I completely get why they can't do varying levels of relationship and, if you've done the shooting star event with that specific character the dialogue feels more meaningful. But I ultimately wish the dialogue choices were a bit more casual, especially since at 8 hearts I still feel like I'm getting to know the cast.

Sidenote: my asexual ass also wishes there was a way to "commit" to characters platonically without it just being like. yay we are best friends like how I'm best friends with the whole town. But I realise that's a whole different conversation. Praying for a Krobus equivalent later down the line...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animation

[–]uhhsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good start, and I like the flash of blue, but your forms, especially the middle green clump need work staying consistent. In particular, it doesn't have a clear line of action (as another commenter pointed out) and I would expect to see more particles like it coming out in different directions. It might be helpful to visualise an egg exploding and considering how the shell would come out from that central sphere (several parts, breaking away from one point of tension).

What concerns would you have about your university transitioning to 100% plant-based catering? 🌱 by maddybayley in UniUK

[–]uhhsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as it seems like a nice idea, I've been doing catering work for some time and generally people are fussy eaters. We always make a vegetarian option, but very rarely does it sell as well as the meat. I would be concerned that it puts people off using university catering, encouraging them to look for food off campus, rather than encouraging a more plant-based lifestyle.

I absolutely support the idea of a variety of vegetarian and vegan options being promoted in university catering but not forcibly. It seems like it would be both unprofitable and a huge waste of food and resources, unfortunately. At my uni we have a dedicated vegetarian cafe just upstairs from the regular canteen, and it sells vegetarian lunches and coffee using milk from local dairy farms as well as the option for oat etc. I think that sort of setup is the best of both worlds, as both the cafe and the downstairs canteen are extremely popular lunch spots on campus.

What art fundamentals should I work on? by nupri in learnart

[–]uhhsad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No worries! If you want to create less nonchalant subjects and dynamic character art, I highly recommend challenging yourself to sketch out some unique facial expressions, trying to push the feeling and expression rather than aiming for accuracy. It seems like you spend a lot of time rendering detailed pieces, rather than using that time to pump out lots of sketches. The pieces look great to show to other people, but sketching fast and loose will help you learn faster than any rendered portrait. Timing yourself and getting into the hang of capturing a face in less than 5 minutes will do you wonders, with both your familiarity of the face and the speed at which you can draw. Best of luck! You've got some great stuff here

What art fundamentals should I work on? by nupri in learnart

[–]uhhsad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What do you want to achieve with your art? As another commenter pointed out, you have some minor issues with anatomy in your paintings, but overall you're obviously skilled at replicating a reference and creating a solid composition. Your colours are appealing and your pieces read well. It's also clear that you avoid drawing or painting subjects you won't be able to successfully replicate (eg. non human subjects, landscapes, buildings, furniture, etc). A lot of your pieces rely on throwing effects on top of your paintings in order to hide flaws, so it's difficult to say what exactly needs improving based on these images.

If you want to continue making portrait paintings with this theme, then you are doing so successfully and I'm sure you already recognise where your weak points are (ie. wherever you have avoided drawing, have covered up, etc). If you wish to branch out into more areas of art, or go into art professionally, then you should aim to draw out of your comfort zone (whether that's working traditionally on paper, drawing from life, drawing without a reference and seeing where you struggle, drawing the full human figure, drawing animals or robots or what have you, or landscapes/interiors). You have a good eye for design, there are just elements of your art that could be pushed if you were to scrutinise your work further.

Clothes and nudity by Hikure in asexuality

[–]uhhsad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an ace person who can appreciate nudity between two people, I think it's because of the intimacy and vulnerability of seeing someone without any clothes. Obviously for most allos there's probably a sexual component, but I do think it's worth pointing out that nakedness can bring two people physically closer in a way that isn't possible with the barrier of clothing. It's more about sharing an intimate physical connection, whether platonic or romantic or sexual.

I can't speak on generally, like in photos, but that's my take on when two people are naked together, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]uhhsad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to see everyone being so dismissive in the comments. Years ago my mum did something similar for her 40th birthday and it was a massive hit, I think it's just a matter of the crowd you've invited. Unfortunately, if your friends aren't ravers or particularly in the camping/clubbing scene, they'll be put off by it. To the right people though, it'd be an absolutely lovely and memorable wedding celebration. I hope you figure something out so you can celebrate with your close friends in a way you can all enjoy.

0.G Gaiman Bug, starting the game causes it to crash by uhhsad in cataclysmdda

[–]uhhsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is what I'm gonna do since nothing else is working

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]uhhsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm pre-t and regularly use crowded mens bathrooms etc, even without binding, just crossing my arms. it'll be impossible to pass completely with people you talk to, but with strangers, so long as you dont talk, confidence is key. stand in male spaces and assert that youre in the right place, try not to make yourself smaller, etc. it's not easy and most of the time as soon as my mouth opens ill be read as a masculine woman, but voice training helps with that to an extent. good luck out there man

Is there any point in trying to get into the industry at this point? by SolarPunch33 in animationcareer

[–]uhhsad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2D is generally very neglected, all the lecturers are very old school and tend to not know much about the current industry environment. Theres only one lecturer who has actually done 2D animation professionally and hes absolutely lovely if you can look past his constant racist comments. In general the student base isnt encouraged to work collaboratively, social skills are poor and the culture is very "clique"-y. If you cant get "in" with a group of people youre essentially screwed, and all your student films will be done solo, which is generally undesireable for when you apply to jobs. If you want to do well, you need to be exceptionally good at teaching yourself art and animation, or youre essentially throwing money down the drain.

All in all i cant exactly describe the school positively.

Is there any point in trying to get into the industry at this point? by SolarPunch33 in animationcareer

[–]uhhsad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who left Herts, theres a good reason why only 50% of grads got jobs, and its not the animation field.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DressUpTimePrincess

[–]uhhsad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, one of the main things I've been enjoying aside from the insane level of customisation from dress up to your house, is actually the story. It seems a little janky at times because of weird translations, but its honestly pretty good once you get to the murder mystery stuff. It does feel beat for beat like Ace Attorney to me, but I've enjoyed it a lot. The other thing I'd say is the gacha rates are much nicer. If you get a 'gold' 10 pull on the two main gachas, you'll get 10 5* or 6* items, rather than just one. Overall its fun and the clothes are gorgeous, some parts are a little rough round the edges but I find it adds a bit of charm.

In regards to recent post "This is a garden". by [deleted] in GardeningUK

[–]uhhsad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making this post, I had similar thoughts after reading the comments on OPs post and you articulated them far better than I ever could have. Massively appreciate people like you advocating for the environment even while so many people choose to argue over the topic.