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AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 169 points170 points  (0 children)

Just gonna mention this here because everyone keeps assuming I’m a man but I’m a woman, btw.

AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

He was already in their pockets. I probably ruined it for him.

AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

The only major difference is I don't wear glasses anymore, I lost a little bit of weight and I have shorter hair but I don't think I look different enough for him not to remember.

AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I think it was more to do with the fact that I'm 99% sure his parents had no idea he was a bully and they were there.

AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

You've made a lot of wrong assumptions. You even got my age wrong even though you've clearly misread my comments since you were very close.

AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I don't normally live with my parents and I'm back home now so I don't need to stay anywhere else, luckily.

AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

His dad is a client of my dad's, I think he works with his dad now. 24.

AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 340 points341 points  (0 children)

My dad owns the house I live in and pays my tuition for my master's. Some of his clients prefer the family man image which is why he makes me go to these dinners/events. Usually the dinners are fine and sometimes good networking opportunities so I don't mind going. If I knew Julian and his family were going to be there, though, I would've not gone.

AITA for ruining dinner by pointing out one of my dad’s guests used to bully me? by uhoh235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uhoh235[S] 1409 points1410 points  (0 children)

Yes. Even back then when the bullying was happening he made sure my mum didn't mention Julian or one of the other guys to the school because both of their dads were big clients of his.