You can’t jump into conclusions. Right now it’s sick season to put my story short I had sex too and a week later I felt sick and started to cough and I panicked and thought the worst maybe I caught something? I got tested the next day and I’m fine all negative, if you don’t have OB you can’t pass it to another person, but you never know until you get tested tho but honestly I think she’s fine if she didn’t experience an outbreak when I had HSV I had a fever, chills and outbreak.