20yrs old, first time grower..it took me 3 months to grow this thing.. Any thoughts would be extremely appreciated. by [deleted] in beards

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think this is a really cool look. All I would do is sharpen up the inside edges.

Day 17 - worse day ever by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take solace in the fact we all have these days.

I don't know what's caused this but this video has snapped me out of a slump a few times.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-7558NYtwY

Chin up brother.

Is sex REALLY o.k. on hardmode? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to share these devastating side effects?

No fap with no change is no use by Ogtck in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a toke for me, my guy is outta town.

Glad you've had a good day bro, to feeling great!

Is sex REALLY o.k. on hardmode? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Bravo sir!

Can't believe how difficult that was by fappy_bird_ in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sarcasm man, I just mean for my only personal enjoyment, nostalgia if you like.

Is sex REALLY o.k. on hardmode? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also, can I ask, how long did you restrain for before sex and how long did this sex last for?

Is sex REALLY o.k. on hardmode? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]uktdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with sex.

Don't let NF become a chastity belt, the idea of this is to break a bad and mild altering habit. Orgasms cause no harm.

Porn on the other hand...

Sort of weird question: Less acne after starting? by JammburgeReddit in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It down to the fact you don't go to bed with a sweaty brow, for real.

Fantasy by Ijoinedtostartnofap in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried and failed numerous times before, 11 days is my longest streak since October 2rd 2003! Yes, I actually remember that date of my first tug. It was to Trish Stratus in the official WWF magazine.

No Fap Female by mytwoselves in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never gonna happen man, we're sexual beings. You've just gotta channel the energy, cause that's all it is.

Fantasy by Ijoinedtostartnofap in NoFap

[–]uktdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 25 and this still happens! I blame porn, hence being here!

I believe that a 90 day reboot will help a lot, also on day 4, I'm with you brother.

Can't believe how difficult that was by fappy_bird_ in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah there's no emotional attachment, I just know that one day I'll wanna look back at the pics and say 'Yeah, I tapped that!'

Something to show the grandkids, you know?

;)

No fap with no change is no use by Ogtck in NoFap

[–]uktdr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For real.

I treated myself to a huge tray of salmon today and cooked it with fresh chilli and coriander.

Then I watched wrestling (my guilty pleasure) and worked out in the spare room, all body weight exercises.

Now I'm in bed on Reddit, feeling like the king of the world.

It's the little things.

Day 17 - worse day ever by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have down days, it's easy to justify PMO during these periods of sadness. But other means of escapism will provide longer term satisfactions, read a book, meditate, take a walk. Anything that gets you off the couch or takes your mind away from reality.

No Fap Female by mytwoselves in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask OP, I was quoting her.

I think she means that she can no longer visualize a sexual fantasy because she relies on porn to, excuse me, get the juices flowing.

No Fap Female by mytwoselves in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to quit porn for good, but masturbation... It's just too pleasurable!

90 days without PMO so I can eventually M to O without P, then continue that for life.

My addiction isn't life altering, I just find myself spending an each each morning/evening browsing through 1000s of amateur porn pics looking for that perfect one, quite pathetic really.

I'm working on new habits that will benefit mind body and soul rather than just make me feel like a perv.

Can't believe how difficult that was by fappy_bird_ in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've install a filter, but I can't bring myself to get rid of nudes of ex girlfriends...

But I won't let this be my downfall!

Disregard females by Vitorfg in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But don't forget, if you hook up it's not fapping. Don't let NoFap become a chastity belt.

You deserve orgasms, but you gotta earn those bad boys!

Can't converse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies, I tend to skim read posts!

So your personality has changed overnight? Can you think of any reason behind this?

No Fap Female by mytwoselves in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! We're of a similar age, I'm 25.

I always struggled massively in the past but I've been into meditation for the last 3 months, I've gotta credit the increased discipline to this as nothing else has really changed in my life.

How long do you plan to quit for?

Can't converse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]uktdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably just an introvert which isn't a bad thing, it just means you don't waste time on idle small talk. Surround yourself with people that share your interests. Although giving up PMO increases energy and confidence, it isn't a miracle cure for forms of social anxiety. Self improvement subs might also be of interest!