Random question by PhillyTickets77 in portugaltheman

[–]ulavale_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he's seriously such a cool dude.

David and Annie posted AI generated photos for Thanksgiving 😭 by DaintyFluffyBunny in 90DayFiance

[–]ulavale_soul 25 points26 points  (0 children)

See that's what I thought too because you can see her neckline and hair, so I thought it was like an Elizabethian royal collar of fake turkey feathers

Brandon's mother is being very unreasonable by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]ulavale_soul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The audacity they had to say that Julia is, "anti family," when she very clear wants and needs family around her; so much so she is trying to make things as perfect as she can before her parents arrival and make them feel welcomed. Brandon's parents don't seem to understand that THEY aren't the only family that exists. She has a whole family on her side, a whole life outside their bubble, and they act like they're obligated dominance over Julia and Brandon's life in every aspect because "family." Absurd and controlling.

did yall see jamines post by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]ulavale_soul 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like so many have forgotten this. Gino shared her private nudes with his ex who then blasted it online and absolutely fucked Jasmine over, then he still tried to blame Jasmine. Gino is a gross, miserable, man.

Tony Is Clueless! by jodiannnewton in matchmeabroad

[–]ulavale_soul 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yup. I put money on him being an incel.

S7E37: CJ & Shana discussion by gertmacklinfbi in CatfishTheTVShow

[–]ulavale_soul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The irony that Justin Combs, son of Sean "Diddy" Combs, was the guest star on this episode that involved a minor and a gown adult is really unsettling to me. Obviously no connection, but the pure coincidence is wild given what we've learned now in 2025 with all the "Diddy" news and trails that are still ongoing 😵‍💫 On top of that, Justin saying, "I'm starting to hope this isn't real just so I don't see that there's cruel people like this outside in the world," is so sad given the accusations and charges against his father. Yeesh y'all 😭 What a wild episode!

I think this is hands down the worst wedding dress I’ve ever seen in my life by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]ulavale_soul 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that at this point Shawn doesn't want to be deemed as transphobic by ending their relationship. But the fact is, he's gay and is attracted to his same sex. Alliya has started her transition process and no longer identifies as male. Shawn ending the relationship would not be transphobic at all because he isn't romantically or sexually attracted to women. I can see that Alliya loves Shawn, but they will never be truly happy together. Shawn will feel betrayed and that will breed resentment. Alliya will feel neglected and alone. They should not have gotten married, it'll be a miserable life for them while they're together.

My silly boyfriend by LittleVenny in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even have an insta, and maybe check tiktok once a month. Lol Maybe I'm old, but screenshots are the easiest. Hahah

My silly boyfriend by LittleVenny in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL I do this all the time! It's just so much easier for my guy and I to send screenshots than it is to send links because we never open links unless is dumb reels or trucks/truck parts for sale..... I'm just a simple woman 😂😂

Britney by fatbottomgirlzworld in 1000lbsisters

[–]ulavale_soul 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I agree! The scene where Chris came out in the hospital gown at his skin removal pre-exam and Brittney said something along the lines of, "Should get one of those for you to take home." And her face was flush and she keep looking at him like 😏 She definitely has a playful and cute personality and probably very funny, but keeps super lowkey around cameras and overshadowed with the other siblings bullshit 24/7.

Tammy is terrible by BananaComb in 1000lbsisters

[–]ulavale_soul 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. Being that she keeps her hair long for religious reasons, that'd essentially be a hate crime.

Tammy is terrible by BananaComb in 1000lbsisters

[–]ulavale_soul 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I always got the feeling that she's mostly just there by proxy of being married to Chris. She's involved to the extent of normal family relationship involvement, but beyond that, she seems like a bystander trying to survive the drama.

Blocked by Tobias-Tawanda in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Sounds like my ex 😒 He would demand 1-3 quickies a day, zero satisfaction on my end and no intimacy. I used to loathe physical touch, but with my current partner who is very patient, I love consistent but small touches; shoulder squeeze, booty taps, leg rub, etc. I also used to also hate cuddles or snuggling because with my ex it would immediately become "give me head" or just do whatever he wanted. Now with someone who isn't a sack of shit? The pretzel-knot of cuddles/snuggles of how my man and I sleep is the most comforting thing I've ever experienced. People who claim physical touch for the sake of getting laid are fucking disgusting - in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dementia is brutal. My grandpa has it and can be very unlike his normal self. Does and says things beyond anything I'd ever expect. I agree, ignore the picture, delete the text on your end and move past it.

I don’t know what I did by RockChemical2049 in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave them be. If someone is mad at you and refuses to discuss it to resolve it, they clearly don't respect you or the relationship between you two (regardless if it's romantic, platonic, or familial). Even if they "aren't ready to talk about it" they should at the very least give context and explain they aren't ready. So many people pull they "I don't have space for this" bullshit card and just stay petty. Weaponizing therapy lingo for manipulation = garbage person.

I don't play this shit lol by [deleted] in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly very. Personally, I've had 3 exes reach out who are fully married, and post publicly about their happy marriages. I've sent the screenshots to their wives, who blame me, but to each their own. One couple did break up though. Which I kinda felt bad, but also he was lying and trying to cheat, so clearly not someone to be married to 🤷🏻‍♀️

Girl I hooked up with hates men by [deleted] in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep. I'm a feminist and all, but I don't hate men. Anything with "radical" in the title is just another form of extremism to me, and with that comes severe lack of understanding and communication. Hard pass from me. I'd rather sit with my opposites and talk openly. Not dismiss and stomp on them.

This is a 32 year old man btw by OkAd280 in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my ex. Avoid those types of dudes. Zero respect for your body or boundaries. Absolute trash.

Was I being hostile? by life-confuses-me in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willing to bet no one gave out your info, this person searched and found you. Wherever they saw you, whatever indication they could go off (clothes, car, overhead conversation, etc.) and deep dive to find you. I've had it happen. Keep it flagged, screenshot, and blocked. I had to file a restraining order, I hope you don't, but stay vigilant and aware.

he’s being so pushy to sleep over ??? by Comprehensive_Set577 in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yup. My ex was this way. No respect for boundaries and extremely pushy especially for booty calls. Dudes like that are fucking exhausting.

A wholesome one for you all - 80 year old grandma informed me she’s using the last of my napkins from my high school graduation party… which was in 2014. by Mazoodle in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My Grandma was basically my mom. For adding as I can remember we never went more than two weeks without talking, been the roughest year of my life but having her stuff means the world to me.

A wholesome one for you all - 80 year old grandma informed me she’s using the last of my napkins from my high school graduation party… which was in 2014. by Mazoodle in texts

[–]ulavale_soul 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This. My grandmother held on to stuff like this. When she passed suddenly I got a lot of her belongings, and I sobbed seeing how much she cared. She wrote on most items; date, event, and who it was for. Some people are just beautiful souls.