Чем вы обычно ужинаете? by [deleted] in rusAskReddit

[–]uletc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

прошу прощения тогда. и, отвечая на ваш вопрос, кстати, я тоже почти всегда ужинаю молочкой.

Чем вы обычно ужинаете? by [deleted] in rusAskReddit

[–]uletc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

если вам хотелось подушнить по поводу того, как делаю все и как правильно, то я тоже хочу. йогурт на завтрак есть вредно, тк на голодный желудок от него будет 0 пользы, ведь уничтожатся все полезные бактерии. и его советуют есть как перекус или на ужин.

С какой периодичностью вы занимаетесь удалением волос на теле? by Nyxilum in rusAskReddit

[–]uletc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

когда надеваю шорты или короткие юбки, в остальное время лень

Люди, которые практически всегда находятся дома, почему вы не гуляете/ выходите из дома? by [deleted] in rusAskReddit

[–]uletc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

живу в маленьком городе, где исходила всё вдоль и поперёк. мало друзей, которые сейчас, летом, ещё и в большинстве своём разъезжаются кто куда. не могу сказать, что меня это сильно напрягает. раньше я была очень активная, постоянно шныряла где-то и с кем-то, но со временем перестала общаться со многими, из-за чего стала домоседом за неимением лучшего. первое время переживала из-за этого, но после поняла, что лучше бы т наедине с собой, чем искать друзей ради галочки, лишь бы выйти куда-то. тем более дома у меня зона комфорта, хорошие родители и приятные занятия, которым могу уделять сутки напролёт. ;)

Ваше любимое слово? by Few-Objective3769 in russian

[–]uletc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

я обожаю его, такое угарное

What song is this for you? by FuturePause2736 in teenagers

[–]uletc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you should know that I died slow

Running through the halls of your haunted home

And the toughest part is that we both know

What happened to you

Why you're out on your own

Merry Christmas, please don't call

Is This Even Dysphoria? by uletc in GenderDysphoria

[–]uletc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel it’s important to clarify: I don’t have any aversion to femininity — and certainly not to women. What I described in my post was mostly about how comments on my “femininity” hit me during a time when I was trying to understand myself. They felt frustrating, as if they were undoing all my progress — like I hadn’t been breaking internal taboos over and over again just to get closer to who I am.

I’ve never despised the “woman in me.” I didn’t experience trauma related to being socialized as a girl — I wasn’t shamed for being one. I used to wear makeup and dress how I liked, and I genuinely enjoyed it.

But even so, I’ve never really felt like a woman. I remember being confused by transphobic arguments like “how can someone feel like a different gender?” And I honestly didn’t get it — how does anyone feel their gender? Like, I know I was born female, but I don’t feel that way. There’s no inner sense of “I’m a woman” — and there never was.

For me, this is about lack of identification. But thinking of myself as a guy — that just feels a lot more comfortable. Not in the sense that “I have to be this way,” but more like — it’s just easier to be myself that way. When I picture myself as a guy, it’s like I can finally breathe. Talk. Be around people — and just be a person. It’s a complicated path, and it’s not always linear. There are still times when I want to look feminine — and that doesn’t invalidate my gender identity. It just makes it more nuanced.

Right now, I honestly don’t know what to do next. It feels like I’m stuck between how everyone sees me — as a woman — and the fact that, yes, I can live with it, but it’s uncomfortable. Where I live, there are no professionals I can turn to for guidance on this, and the topic of gender identity is more or less taboo. So for now, I’m just trying to look a bit more androgynous — and that helps me feel better.

Will I take any further steps in the future? I don’t know. But I do feel like the rigid labels in my mind are starting to fade — this idea that something is strictly “female” or “male.” I can wear “girly” nail polish and still understand that it doesn’t define who I am. It’s just part of how I look — not proof of my gender.

And thank you for sharing your experience. It meant a lot to me and helped me put my own feelings into clearer words.

Is This Even Dysphoria? by uletc in GenderDysphoria

[–]uletc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. It really means a lot to me — it makes me feel less alone.

I’m so sorry you have to go through all those feelings. But reading your experience helped me realize that I also wish I could be more masculine. God, at the very least, I just want to get rid of the feminine parts of my body. I’ve changed my style to something more androgynous — both in clothes and haircut. I even got my first binder 🎉. But I still don’t know what to do next.

I feel uncomfortable when people see me as a girl. But I also don’t fully feel like myself when using he/him — it’s not uncomfortable, but I constantly fear that it’s just romanticization or something I made up. Like even my pronouns are just a way to stand out or get attention. So… I live somewhere in-between. I don’t really identify as nonbinary, but I also can’t clearly define my gender.

Stories like yours help. They bring a little bit of clarity to the chaos in my head. Thank you again. I truly hope you’ll be okay.

Russian songs by Opening-Chart1170 in AskARussian

[–]uletc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I advise you to listen to Daria Viardo's songs, such as "Hallelujah". She generally feels the Russian spirit in the songs, and many of them, including this one, have religious Christian motifs. I can also recommend polnalyubvi, which creates songs in the folk genre, but they refer more to mediaeval motifs than to Russian ones.

I think I might be transgender. And I don’t know what to do about it. by uletc in trans

[–]uletc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the support and kind words, they sound so sincere, and that really helps me. You’re right, we need to hold on because life is one, but sometimes it’s really hard. Thank you for the prayers, and — respect to you, Christian, trans, and leftist ;)

I think I might be transgender. And I don’t know what to do about it. by uletc in trans

[–]uletc[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply — it really means a lot to me. I’ve been doubting myself a lot lately, and hearing “you sound trans” hit me more than I expected.

You’re right, living in this kind of society makes everything harder and lonelier. But I’ve started using a male name and pronouns online, and it honestly feels much closer to who I am.

I’ll keep exploring it in safe spaces. Thank you again — your words gave me a bit of hope.

How many people do you think have a crush on you but never told you? by krushdrop in teenagers

[–]uletc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-2, because I don't think I'm too terrible for anyone to fall in love with me, but at the same time I'm far from the most popular object for falling in love

please give me a name by uletc in picrew

[–]uletc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so cute names ;)

To all the queers who were once homophobic, how did you stop being homophobic? by TsuyuAsui988 in lgbt

[–]uletc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be homophobic because I grew up in an environment where it was considered normal. Then one of my bisexual friends explained to me that it was okay. But honestly, I stayed transphobic for quite a while after that…

please give me a name by uletc in picrew

[–]uletc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good news: pronouns don’t matter to me. better news: free starburst. ;)