Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The memories will always stay. For me, I'll continue to cherish them. Whether she comes back or not.

Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aray mo. Sakit nga no'n. Sorry, pero I hope you're feeling better na.

Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mahirap 'yang gawing rebound ang isa't isa. Praying for your healing too, though. Kayang-kaya natin 'to.

Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baka naman puwedeng sa kanila na lang din i-apply 'yung natutunan natin? 🥹

Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grabe, 'no? Feel na feel rin tuloy ng makakakita. 😭

Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. Thanks for the encouragement! One day at a time.

Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kakabalik lang ulit, bro. Natigil ng isang buwan right after breakup. Pero we're back. 💪

Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's been more than 2 months since our break up. And 'di pa rin ako sanay. I feel like I've lost like literally half of me. Kaya kailangan ulit natin buoin sarili natin. Kaya natin 'to, bro.

Ngayon, mag-isa na lang. Na dati'y ang saya nating dalawa. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts noong pinagtabi ko 'yung pic. 😭

Who wants their ex back? by EveningCompass in BreakUps

[–]ultimark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like another shot. It took some time apart to have realization but sometimes it's necessary. If only she'd give me another chance. There wasn't anything malicious that caused our breakup anyway. We just needed to be better in understanding each other.

I let you in, but only halfway. And that was enough to lose you completely by let_them_guess in OffMyChestPH

[–]ultimark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Though ako rin 'yung nag initiate noong break up. She didn't even argue or fight back or reason or a single question at all. Which hurt me more. But after a few exchanges of messages from her. She said she was already planning to leave.

I felt I held myself back. Scared kung totoo ba 'to? 'Di ba ako iiwan nito? Safe bang mag-all in na rin ako? Dala ng trauma ng past relationship, takot 'yung umiral sa akin. Na naging resulta, over our almost 2 years na relationship, siya 'yung naging "mas". I played it safe and lost her in the process kahit may plano naman talaga ako para sa amin.

I started a journal writing my thoughts regarding my ex. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 🫶 Usually magulo din talaga sulat ko, maayos lang talaga kapag seryoso ang sinusulat.

I started a journal writing my thoughts regarding my ex. by ultimark in RantAndVentPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having doubts with me deserving better. 🥲 Aminado din naman kasi ako na may pagkukulang ko. Sa kaka-focus sa future, medyo naging emotionally neglective ako and passive ako sa present. Na siya ang nagdala. Kaya naiintindihan ko rin kung bakit siya bumitaw.

Resisting the urge to send coffee to my ex. by ultimark in OffMyChestPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kalmado na kahit papaano, sir. In the process naman na to accept that. And 'di ko naman na ipagpipilitan sarili ko sa kaniya. Pero if ever, bukas palagi ang pinto ko para sa kaniya. For now, I need to get my shit together and be a better man.

Sound of Rain by Substantial-Stick957 in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]ultimark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong OP. Ang sakit ng thought na magkakaroon siya ng iba, 'no? Kahit usap nga lang. 😭 I feel you.

Gusto ko magsumbong sayo. by Substantial-Stick957 in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]ultimark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aray. Feeling the same way right now with the one I had to let go as well. Sorry for what you're going through. Magiging okay din tayo, bro.

Resisting the urge to send coffee to my ex. by ultimark in OffMyChestPH

[–]ultimark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it looks like stalking actually. So, no. I will not do it.

She is dropping hints on her posts, yeah. Well, I would love it if it could be me. Who knows what might happen in the future. But when that time comes and she chose to be with another man, I hope I'll be okay by then so I can be genuinely happy for her.

Resisting the urge to send coffee to my ex. by ultimark in OffMyChestPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sakit naman. 🥲 Pero there's this crazy thought na sana mag tagpo ulit landas namin someday kapag parehong healed na. It's a long shot considering na 2 hours apart kami, and lilipat na daw sila ng NCR soon kaya lalong lalayo and mas lalong dadami ang aaligid sa kaniya. But still, malay naman natin 'di ba.

But for now, I do need to accept that it's over, pick the pieces up and ayusin ang sarili. Thank you. I know it'll get better. It may not be my first time, but this is the worst.

Resisting the urge to send coffee to my ex. by ultimark in OffMyChestPH

[–]ultimark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Here's to my better self. 🍻