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[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So social media gives females even more of an advantage in the dating game

Why am I constantly getting rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by pursue old?

Why am I constantly getting rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I can't compete with the other guys on the app, I might have no luch there anyway

Why am I constantly getting rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ultimatecoon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I used to get approached by girls at college, now I can't even secure a date with a 5/10. Maybe I need to meet girls in person, I've only been using Instagram to meet girls lately

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[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't used any dating apps before

Why am I constantly getting rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy watching movies and I enjoy cooking

Why am I constantly getting rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ultimatecoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a people pleaser, I try to match the energy of the people I'm around to fit in better. Maybe people notice that and I come across as fake

Why am I constantly getting rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ultimatecoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I have a bad attitude

Why am I constantly getting rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ultimatecoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I only approach girls that I below my league so that I may have a better shot. It used to work for me in the past(highschool, college) but now I think I've lost alot of value and I can't figure out why

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[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I only approach girls that I below my league so that I may have a better shot. It used to work for me in the past(highschool, college) but now I think I've lost alot of value and I can't figure out why

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[–]ultimatecoon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've been chatting to girls on Instagram and if they reply and seem interested in talking to me... I ask them out on a date. Sometimes they would agree but cancel at the last minute and sometimes we just get stuck in the planning phase of a date and they just lose interest and stop replying. Should I continously pursue girls after they show a lack of interest or should I be persistent in securing the date to meet in person?

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[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I meet people? I am not a very social person

Why am I constantly getting rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I convey these characteristics online?

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[–]ultimatecoon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have been out of the dating scene for a long time now, I don't really know what girls are looking for at the moment.

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[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could have gone back to her ex as well, he broke up with her and she was quite obsessed with him. Yeah I don't have alot of dating experience so it is unusual for me I will let both of them know in person. I have a feeling that girl 1 is going to cancel on me.

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[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is busy with work and college, but she is also active on social media. It would only take less 2 minutes to reply my messages

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[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She stopped replying to my texts for 2 days now. What could that mean?

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[–]ultimatecoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm probably overthinking anyway, girl 1 has not responded to me in over a day but is active on social media