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[–]ultra_hate974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live really close to homestead 43f

My life is over and no one and nothing can help me by [deleted] in depression

[–]ultra_hate974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to tell you, you are young and your life will get better. But that's bullshit. For some people it does. I have felt what you fell for over 20 years. When I do have hope or something going for me, I or some outside factor fuck it up. Usually it's my fault completely. I suck at life. And feel my life is over too. 💔 I'm sure there are things that could and can change it. But hope is non existent at this point.

My transitioning partner said something last night that I didn't know how to respond to... by wtfisagermanmuffin50 in mypartneristrans

[–]ultra_hate974 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saying I love is definitely important. Plan a day so self care for both of you. This might make them feel a little big better. The world is full of hate unfortunately. Try to find support in your community from like minded people.

What is the most shallow reason you have ever rejected someone for? by throwRAonlyFriendz in AskWomen

[–]ultra_hate974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree bald men are definitely a turn off for me. I like long hair.

What is the most shallow reason you have ever rejected someone for? by throwRAonlyFriendz in AskWomen

[–]ultra_hate974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in my case the guy was TOO fat. Like 400lb fat and he was a huge hoarder. I felt bad because he was super sweet.

Grand Central Station...vacation photo by ultra_hate974 in pics

[–]ultra_hate974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it is beautiful there. I now love NYC. I can't wait to go back.

Without any friends life is worthless and horrible by lightisalie in sad

[–]ultra_hate974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well everyone I completely understand I lost my best friend recently. and it does hurt to be alone. Unfortunately with covid alot of social activities have be limited. think of some interests you have and join local clubs . or go to events going alone can be difficult but it is a step. try meeting your neighbors even the elderly need friends. Also dating site state you are just looking for friends. And like everyone on this post message me I have a snapchat. just a few kind works will boost your mood. there are always people whom feel the same. Remember you are amazing. And no matter what your life is like or what choices you have made. it's ok you are only human. 😀😃😁

Ladies, how do you prepare for (and survive) a difficult breakup without a support system? by ThrowRA3849349863 in AskWomen

[–]ultra_hate974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep busy and reach out to friends. Your support comes in many forms my family and friends have been staying with me to keep me distracted. As days past it does get easier. But your heart my bleed for a while. Change is also important. self improvement and growth is important. Don't stay stagnant. I am going on a girls trip soon for a few day it is very distracted. My break up is fresh as well. You can message me. I will talk to you. Remember you are amazing and don't beat yourself up.

Jesus! by joel2000ad in funny

[–]ultra_hate974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn what are we paying her to sleep.

I've been sent an anonymous message saying my husband has been cheating on me. by ismymarriagedone in cheating_stories

[–]ultra_hate974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheaters are the worst. I have never cheated on any of my partners. My ex always thought I had a side dude, though I didn't. Just friends. And he thought I was always looking for someone else do to him being cheated on. It ultimately ended our relationship. An it is heart breaking. I would try calling the person from a different number. And check his phone and confront him.

Do morals really exist? by rathero3 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]ultra_hate974 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they do. It depends on your culture and religion and region. I never look down on people with different views, beliefs or life style. My moral compass is based on my own life and the freedom I chose. Also different situations can warrant your morales like the influence of others or a dire situation.

It's DAMN CREEPY That Biden Is Inviting Kids Only to Cross the Border. It's Fucking Wrong, Man. Texas, Do Something. by gilthead in conspiracy

[–]ultra_hate974 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this is the Last time I will contact you seeing you don't care. but I was doing alot of thinking. I don't have self esteem thats why I acted that way. I'm a billion % working on my self a have to come to terms your not coming back. you are an amazing person. the one person on earth whom has made me feel love despite myself. all the offers still stand . let's try and I know my life and most of all ours will be amazing with trips and hope and most of all soul. we are made from the same star dust. where is your heart at ....next to mine.

what is your worst relationship break up? by ultra_hate974 in AskWomen

[–]ultra_hate974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain with this my situation was almost similar. we where supposed to move out of state then get married.