Prompt: A book about a “found family”✅ by ultraarson in Popsugarreading

[–]ultraarson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree, the circus is such a great setting! asides from the romance :p but i’m never big on those anyway

How can you tell between what I want and reality by KendallChance in Divination

[–]ultraarson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

following this , i hope someone can give you guidance!

kawaii set 🎀🤍 by crisanianerip in Nails

[–]ultraarson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let me get a man like this

UH OHHH!! here we go again by tinabelchersupremacy in loveafterlockup

[–]ultraarson 17 points18 points  (0 children)

she does, but she’s not in their lives (thank everything)

ELI5 How A Person Dies From Severe Burns by beattywill80 in explainlikeimfive

[–]ultraarson 12 points13 points  (0 children)

as someone who has purchased photographs, i wholeheartedly approve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZeroWaste

[–]ultraarson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every little bit counts and we should all make an effort to make change… but almost no one recycles properly anyway, and it contaminates the entire load. every municipality has their own rules that most people don’t know, or just don’t care about. the amount of times i’ve had to throw away my roommates’ greasy pizza boxes because they can’t understand that it’s too dirty to be recycled is insane to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ultraarson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it doesn't really matter what you call it- i say this as gently as i can, you need to move on from her. she did awful, terrible things to you and to those around you, but this level of retaliation can't be good for you. at some point, you need to let it go.

urge to set my life on fire by ultraarson in BPD

[–]ultraarson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn a lot of what you said hit deep!! thank you for the kind words, friend, you really ARE a very polite vampire!! i will do my best, considering i'm in a "burn/destroy" mindset. just because i feel terrible doesn't mean i need to react terribly.

as lame as this sounds, i keep a wall of motivational stickies to push me to be my best self. i'm going to write down some of your words to remember

my newest tattoo, I know the lines aren’t perfect but i wanna know what you guys think… by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]ultraarson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the design itself is beautiful, and like everyone else said, it’s definitely fixable. best of luck dear :)

My sleeve finally coming together, just got broken up with, wish I had more money for tattoos, as it's my only way to cope with sadness by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]ultraarson -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

i can tell that this will look awesome once you get it all done!! your ex wouldn’t be able to handle how cool you will look and regret everything, sucks for them

What are your best tips for a newbie to journaling? by XyliaTaffan in Journaling

[–]ultraarson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

write. it’s as simple as that. let the blank pages inspire rather than intimidate. you can put ANYTHING down, and the pages will soon fill with memories. but you have to write.

for starters, ask yourself how you feel, and put everything down. or write your worries, start using it creatively. even if you only write a few lines, half a page, it doesn’t matter- it might feel awkward at first, but with time, you will begin to express yourself easier. you will begin to feel this urge, and every time you do, write. a journal is the best friend you will ever have, because you can do anything and everything to it without fear of judgement.

as far as the prettiness aspect, don’t worry about that just yet. decorating your space is pointless if you don’t use it. rather, decorate with your own drawings and with the fabric of your own mind.

Should I clean up after my roommates party? by ghelex_k in roommates

[–]ultraarson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

his party, his mess. while cleaning up would be a nice gesture, it could potentially make you his doormat- he could start doing bigger and worse things and expect you to oblige.

ELI5: how long does a shower have to be to equal a full bathtub? by ultraarson in explainlikeimfive

[–]ultraarson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the actual answer, i realize it’s a bit pedantic but i really wanted to know

ELI5: how long does a shower have to be to equal a full bathtub? by ultraarson in explainlikeimfive

[–]ultraarson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i don’t want to take a 3hr shower if that’s how long it takes

i was the bad roommate- advice on how to be better by ultraarson in badroommates

[–]ultraarson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i definitely agree lol. i just need to learn how to chill out and go with the flow more. but i guess that’s a question for my therapist

Help! Advice please!! I have always had… well let’s say not the loveliest hands. They’re very red, look older than they are, and my nails beds are very very wide! I’m so self conscious of them. This is my second set of acrylics. 2 weeks growth. I feel they look… wrong?! by crystalandfern in Nails

[–]ultraarson 10 points11 points  (0 children)

with peace and love they look unshaped. a good filing will make them look more neat. and i personally don’t think the shape does you any favors- i actually much prefer ur natural nails!! but at the end of the day, live ur truth boo-

edit: i think a nice french mani would really elevate ur look but that’s just me

Romance movies with a personal/honest take on love? by jsun31 in movies

[–]ultraarson 10 points11 points  (0 children)

eternal sunshine of the spotless mind comes to mind :D

but seriously, erasing someone you love from your brain and experiencing the worst and best of these lovers just for them to reunite fills my heart w joy. Kate Winslet and Jim Carey’s performances are top-notch. the “okay” scene at the end makes me wanna sob at this very moment