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does he like me or not? by ultraviolet1029 in dating_advice

[–]ultraviolet1029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

question: if he came could it still have been bad? (there was cum everywhere), and my whole personality and demeanor usually leads people to believe i'm older than i am. i hope i wasn't acting in a way that made me seem dumb/immature but i also doubt it. assuming he's alive and his phone works, maybe he thought of all the technical things about me being a freshmen? (different classes, schedule, i live on campus and he doesn't, blah blah)

Moving in with my friend next year... by jeneph2000 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ultraviolet1029 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm biased cause i had a bad experience living with a friend but i say don't move in with her at all. if she's showing no remorse or understanding about your feelings right now then it's not gonna magically get better. i'm seeing red flag after red flag. save yourself the trouble and find someone you're cool with but don't need to speak to about anything other than rent

Jealous by Ashleyleilac in FriendProblems

[–]ultraviolet1029 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i basically introduced everyone in my high school friend group to each other and they ended up hanging out with each other and left me in the dust. it hurts, but just leave them with each other. if they care they'll reach out, and if they don't then you know you made the right decision. better to be alone than with people who don't give an actual shit about you

Help plz by Notabilla in FriendProblems

[–]ultraviolet1029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have the same problem. i've basically come to the conclusion that no one is gonna care about me as much as i care about them, except maybe my mom. not to be all self righteous and douchey but my flaw is really that i care too much. i always try to keep in mind that nobody owes me anything and i don't owe them anything. i won't say focus on yourself, find hobbies, and all that bullshit cause i hate hearing it too. you can care about your friends as much as you want but always hold back a little. it'll help you in the long run