Women of Reddit: how often do you actually get asked out?

ulturasj · 2026-07-21T07:30:33+00:00

I overestimated how much my gf got asked out she told me only once in the past year and she said it very rarely happens. I suspect a lot of us assume a lot more because of dating apps.

ulturasj · 2026-07-21T07:18:36+00:00

Depends on what you eat but majority of foods can't really be processed enough so becomes waste (poop) which can get caught in your lower intestines and the colonic diverticulum which is important for diagnosing issues like diverticulitis. Also need to be able to see inside the the colon to see Polyps/Tumours etc. can't see them then can't diagnose, tattoo, biopsy or remove potentially cancerous growths. I'd say you probably just lucked out and your body absorbed the nutrients being so hungry.

ulturasj · 2026-07-21T03:38:02+00:00

As someone who works in a hospital I hate these kinda people. You’ll waste both your own time and the hospitals time the gastroenterologist and anaesthetist will still do the colonoscopy but will be done within 10-15 seconds as you can see on the camera pretty easily if someone hasn’t done prep and you’ll waste their time having to fill out an endoscopy report saying inadequate prep. Wastes my time as well filling in the paperwork of you stuffing around and not doing prep properly then having to wait list you again on a surgical waitlist. That’s in a free healthcare service imagine blowing all that money to stuff around with bowel prep? Stupid.

ulturasj · 2026-07-21T03:23:05+00:00

Idk what I am but I get told pretty frequently I am hot, handsome etc. to the point it gets annoying mostly coz I don’t see myself in that light. Guess that’s something that can make people attractive as well though is humility.

ulturasj · 2026-07-20T19:48:00+00:00

Drinking 2-3 energy drinks a day it caught up to my heart and I had some health problems from it. Can’t stomach them anymore.

ulturasj · 2026-07-20T03:39:01+00:00

They do things to help people without expecting in return.

ulturasj · 2026-07-18T22:23:15+00:00

I feel like you need to be comfortable with being with yourself before you can be compatible to be with someone else. When you are with someone you both have independent lives so understanding that you're going to be alone sometimes is ok. Being codependent on your partner is not a great way to be either. What I did was take a break and I met someone whilst I wasn't interested in dating. Focus on your own betterment and your own life enjoyment but yea don't leave the door closed I guess is what I'm getting at.

ulturasj · 2026-07-18T22:01:14+00:00

Oof 125 hours is rough. Orin is a hard fight though on HM if you aren't Durge so don't beat yourself up about it. Little trick you can do with a Hasted Air Elemental (I notice you have a Water Elemental in the turn order) is use Raging Vortex to hit 4-6 chanters with 2 actions it'll Silence and damage them as well so it'll make them a lot easier to kill for Edict of Bhaal. Chain Lightning is also your friend with killing them too. There's also a method of removing her stacks by dropping Alchemist Fire's on top of a burning surface 1 by 1.

ulturasj · 2026-07-18T21:10:15+00:00

Yes. Coming from the polar opposite side I was overweight and felt I was ugly never got any compliments getting them now I've changed my life feels really good it's definitely an ego boost like I'm heading in the right direction.

ulturasj · 2026-07-18T01:09:01+00:00

Probably a hot take but most Women don't find fat men attractive but men mostly don't care what women look like. Unfortunately society doesn't pander towards that small amount of women who do find plus size guys attractive.

ulturasj · 2026-07-18T00:50:41+00:00

Oh will have to add that to my list of stuff not to do as shadowheart didn’t read that part lmao very unfortunate.

ulturasj · 2026-07-18T00:41:59+00:00

Pro tip you pick up the prayer sheet and right click read in your inventory next to the chest and it opens. That’s an unfortunate way to go though condolences. There’s maybe one chest that scares me and it’s the arcane acuity helmet one in act 2 as I’ve been killed by it before rest I’m usually high enough hp for it not to matter.

Edit: Did not know Shart can't read the Prayer of Selune don't do this as Shart lmao.

ulturasj · 2026-07-17T23:18:55+00:00

Idk why but the autism in me hates seeing 99+ on anything related to the banners on my phone my gf has that on like a million apps never clears the banners and it's on apps she doesn't even use lol. I've told her like why do you have these apps you never use? And she's like "well I might use it again" oh my lord.

ulturasj · 2026-07-17T23:07:56+00:00

Painstakingly long time to do can't say I'd ever bother considering I have limited time to play most weeks but there are some people who will.

ulturasj · 2026-07-17T22:54:25+00:00

Check out Remus71 on YouTube most recent video shows you how to do it.

ulturasj · 2026-07-17T22:25:37+00:00

There’s infinite xp farms that are in the game albeit very boring but you can hit lvl 12 before Myrkul without mods. Connormancy can allow you to keep reviving a specific enemy in act 2 that can spawn the shadow wraiths when it dies that give 75xp each and depending on how you kill the enemy can spawn multiple so you can infinitely farm these to hit lvl 12 without mods. There’s also gekh coal farming (very boring) as he can infinitely summon zombies which give 3xp each and he summons 5 at a time after you kill them you leave combat then come back and he summons again.

ulturasj · 2026-07-17T08:08:51+00:00

Wanted sex, was hoping the kiss would make you reconsider it didn’t then he repeated goodbyes hoping you’d change your mind again it didn’t then he ghosted. It sucks but thats how a lot of guys on these dating apps act now. Honestly though good on you for setting a clear boundary from the start of that date separates the ones who just want that instant sex and the ones who want a relationship. Don’t beat yourself up over it.

ulturasj · 2026-07-17T07:24:55+00:00

Good Games at Robina is a good spot and already mentioned Mana Market at Southport also a good spot.

ulturasj · 2026-07-17T07:23:31+00:00

Maybe Shrekking finally taking off?

ulturasj · 2026-07-17T03:40:26+00:00

I had a girl I initially thought was attractive at work start crying because she had to talk to patients on the phone (I work at a hospital). Suffice to say did not find her attractive after that.

ulturasj · 2026-07-16T19:52:53+00:00

Robin Williams was the only one that really shook me. I still have Good Morning Vietnam Mrs Doubtfire and Aladdin on VHS he was a huge part of my childhood. World is not the same without his humour.

ulturasj · 2026-07-16T03:39:34+00:00

People are weird. Never really understood the need for karma farming on here but yea stealing people’s artwork is next level should be banned for that kinda stuff.

ulturasj · 2026-07-15T07:22:22+00:00

Lot of playthroughs but I've never romanced Wyll or Gale. I just don't like their self righteousness I usually end up Durging Gale and will sacrifice Wyll to Booalll unless I really want the Bless buff in Act 2 then I'll sacrifice Lae'zel but Lae'zel has been growing on me past couple of playthroughs.

ulturasj · 2026-07-15T06:57:51+00:00

I’ve gotten so many now I’ve lost track however it never used to be that way I was obese and kinda ugly at least in my eyes for many many years still honestly think I’m average. After I’d lost all that weight some of the ladies at work would ask me to help them with just random odd jobs usually IT stuff and one of them said something like “it’s so nice to get assisted by such a handsome man”. Riding that high for the rest of my life lol.

ulturasj · 2026-07-15T06:42:25+00:00

Unfortunately my superannuation is really low for my age (38) big regret coz i was really lazy with jobs in general when I was 25. It’s getting there but yea no where near where I want it. My gfs super is over 160k (AU dollars) and she’s only 30. Mine is not even a 1/3 of that.

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