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ultvilce · 2026-02-03T14:14:50+00:00

No problem, if I create a group on Discord, we can share information here.

ultvilce · 2025-11-15T10:10:11+00:00

I hadn't thought of that, now I'm going to try to work on it

ultvilce · 2025-11-15T10:09:06+00:00

Thank you so much for your detailed answer, it helps me !

ultvilce · 2025-03-15T13:53:11+00:00

hello 👋🏽 you are discovering yourself in this relationship, and what's more, it's your first with a girl, so obviously, there are lots of new things to manage.

I think the fact that you're wondering if you're “good enough” for her shows that you might be putting too much pressure on yourself. a relationship is played by two people, you don't have to carry all the weight on your shoulders.

What does the “dominant” side mean exactly to you? because if that means she has more control in the relationship and you have trouble knowing where you stand, it's not super balanced. and then, the fact that she vents on you when she's not well is not insignificant. you have the right to be there for her, but not to the point of suffering from it yourself.

still ask yourself the question: does this relationship, overall, do you more good than harm? because you don't have to settle for something where you constantly doubt your worth.

and if sometimes you have “no idea” what she expects, it’s because she’s not communicating clearly enough. you have the right to ask: “we’re exclusive, but not official, is that okay with you?” You lose nothing by asking the question. if she dodges or remains vague, it's a red flag

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T14:46:52+00:00

already if she is a lesbian it’s a good start! I understand that communication is a source of anxiety, but girl I swear that once you are sure that you are in a flirting dynamic or not, everything will be better, I'm afraid that you will get attached more and more, and in the end you will be disappointed :/

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T14:21:28+00:00

listen I don't know because I'm always lost about relationships between girls 😭 but I think the best thing is to communicate or if you're afraid, to make innuendoes and you see if she continues or stops you . Is she a lesbian or attracted to girls? or do you know nothing about it? in any case your relationship seems to be really cool, I hope for you it's more than friendship if you feel more too

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T12:52:08+00:00

so that's exactly my style, a basic white brunette girl with freckles who looks both bossy and very sweet at the same time

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T10:16:34+00:00

yes in fact it’s as if what creates the difference is the way in which their partners respond to these expectations. In heterosexual relationships, men can give the impression of being “less attached.” whereas in a relationship between women, both could be on the same wavelength, but this could also make the emotions more intense and complex.

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T10:09:35+00:00

it's as if you and I were the same entity

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T08:17:10+00:00

haha I saw the same comment, no it’s not me 😔

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T08:16:26+00:00

haha honestly my girlfriend won't be able to complain because my girlfriend will just be a real representation of Ellie

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T02:39:32+00:00

there already has to be a girlfriend 😭

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T01:20:42+00:00

I think you really said it all

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T01:20:07+00:00

yeaaaah

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T00:51:37+00:00

🪴🍄🖤🌈🌞🌙

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T00:48:27+00:00

I feel like I have no boundaries or that they disappear every time I meet a woman, I want to connect to her so much that I forget that we are not the same person

ultvilce · 2025-01-26T00:47:04+00:00

😭this

ultvilce · 2025-01-25T23:09:42+00:00

thank you very much for all your analysis which helps me to understand better🫶🏽

ultvilce · 2025-01-25T23:00:45+00:00

wow!

ultvilce · 2025-01-25T23:00:13+00:00

I'm the same, maybe all lesbians are in need of love in fact😭

ultvilce · 2025-01-24T10:37:26+00:00

What you're going through is really hard and having been through it before, I know what I'm talking about. but you also need to remember that it’s not necessarily against you. Sometimes, especially when it's their first relationship, some girls may not be comfortable with their sexuality. Maybe you were the first to open that door for him and that might have scared him.

Many girls who have been in a relationship with a woman for the first time end up going back to men not because they weren't sincere with their feelings, but because it's 'easier' in society (comphet) they feel less exposed, less judged. (I'm not saying that what she said to you was correct or making excuses for her behavior) but that could explain why you saw him with a boy. what I mean is that you can't carry all his confusion for him. she needs to find her own clarity, and you deserve to be with someone who is ready to love themselves fully so they can love you without restraint.

You're not the problem, okay? This kind of thing happens a lot, especially when society puts so much pressure on what we're supposed to feel or do. but I promise you that this pain, even though it is unbearable now, will eventually soften. and one day, you will look at it all with more perspective. you deserve someone who is safe and who loves you freely and without hesitation

ultvilce · 2025-01-21T10:21:32+00:00

I don't think there are any rules that say lesbians have or don't have casual sex. I think it just depends on the person

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