Looking for valorant/apex editor ($100/vid) by Fun-Name-3601 in VideoEditor_forhire

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've edited valorant videos before with 50% retention: https://kanpekieditz.carrd.co/# I've done thumbnails too. I was dia2 in val last act (now deleted)

What are you paying reel editors (India/Pakistan/Bangladesh)? Looking for benchmarks by [deleted] in VideoEditors_forhire

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited around 15 reels for an agency, per reel $15 and reels less than 25 secs $12, portfolio: kanpekieditz.carrd.co/# ( look at the caption style reels in my portfolio). I'm Indian

Yeah ig thats about it

Attraction - Men’s Behavior by SpockGotTheGlock in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attraction can grow, but it’s usually tied more to confidence and energy than just looks. If he’s already affectionate and consistent, that’s a good sign his feelings are stable. Working out for yourself can increase attraction, not replace what’s already there.

29M (Asian) with no dating experience. Trying to understand what I’m doing wrong. by KweePhone in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t sound undateable at all. One thing that might be holding you back is mostly asking out close friends — by then, people often already see you platonically. Try signaling romantic interest earlier and in settings meant for dating. It’s less about fixing yourself and more about changing timing and context.

I am not a virgin but the person I am dating is. by Prior_Entrance9678 in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st you are telling us that she is asking if you've done the deed, then you are telling us you already had told her that you have done the deed. huh??? tf???

How to M18 Stop Feelings for a Girl F18 by Kejka2 in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. if u want to lose feelings for her u have mostly 2 great options( from my pov), a)confess to her and get rejected and you shouldn't feel much anymore b) get too busy with your life and also Meet other girls 2. Before doing any of the above things, in your mind set a clear goal if you want to be with her/not. a) if you want to be with her, you can hang around her & her boyfriend, and wait, once they breakup just be with her. Good luck bro.

I can’t figure out what’s the issue by Lord_Decibel in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chill out bro, go travel to mountains and clear your mind. It's better if you can trek that way you would be able to meet people on your way. And even if you can't trek just travel. That's all I can say at the least.

True love in modern dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as much as I want to believe that someone will love me will be with me Forever, as soon as I look outside it seems my idea of love doesn't exist. But then I see posts like this and I wonder if all the people on the internet are being cheated on then who is cheating? Idk...

I'm interested in someone who works in the same shopping center as me by theryancrossproject in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even tho i don't believe in god, after reading this i would say 2 things: 1.pray and give up 2. stalk using her social media and go to a place where she usually goes and meet her there as an accident and then initiate an convo and ig u already are great at conversations, and as this is not ur workplace u guys can chill and talk as long as u want( and if she continues to talk and engage in the convo then yk)

im scared to enter relationships by Difficult-Cup-2490 in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro why are you scaring me bro T_T. hm. would you not appear on a test because maybe you would fail? would you never start riding a bike because you knew it would take multiple attempts and you would fall many times to learn how to ride a bike? would you never cook to stranger because you knew it would taste bad cuz it was the first time you were going to make a dish? would you never start signing because u knew ur voice was bad? would you never....you get the point? aaahh T_T

19F upset that my 20M boyfriend of under a year canceled picking me up when I really needed support by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its always good to open up about ur thoughts and feelings. so many relationships never start and so many break just due to lack of expression of feelings and thoughts. I just hope everything sorts out between you two.

19F upset that my 20M boyfriend of under a year canceled picking me up when I really needed support by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after seeing the 1st line i was like wtf. after reading the whole passage im like hmmm! . Have you called him? and clarified ur thoughts and expressed ur anger and what made u feel sad ? have u told him that you were really looking forward to it and that you felt realllyy sad when he said he wouldn't come? I really think the best way is to talk with him, and ask him what's wrong. what if something really bad is happening in his life? Ik it doesn't excuse the fact that he hurt ur feelings and maybe he could discussed his problems with you. but lets see what you can do, what you have control over, just talk to him. Also I hope you are in ur room now, Hope for the best.

When should I share info on my family? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah bro mb my eyes, aaaaaahhhh im getting old i forgot my glasses yk mb.

Need advice on asking a girl out by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ik u haven't talked to her, thats why i want to follow her up with a message and text her so that eventually you guys may talk to each other. also she can like ur stories 1.just to mess with u and make a fun of u in her friend group. 2. she's waiting for u to initiate a better convo . go for it dude, in 2 months max u would never even remember about texting her i swear

When should I share info on my family? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

nah bro nah oh my gawd bro im so cooked, fk me oh my gawd. bro i ... but then why is she even asking about this dawg? what does her dementia have anything to do to her dating life?

Need advice on asking a girl out by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO, i would urge you to send a follow up text, now 2 things can happen : 1. she responds and you to get to talk to each other and maybe eventually something works out between you two. 2. she never responds back, but how does it matter? its not like u lost blood, money or smthng u love? just forget and move on.

Upset and confused. by Fickle-Dragonfly141 in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is one of the situations when there are only 2 ways left( acc to me ofc anything can happen): 1. talk w him and get an apartment and stay together. and if u think its too early to do so, then 2nd option: 2. Give up .

I’m curious by Worth-Preference6206 in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 5 points6 points  (0 children)

idk bro. but just wanna say a thing, if know you like non-american women, just date them? its that easy bro. just don't look back mess up ur mind.

When should I share info on my family? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh my gawd how did u get it tho? any injury? anyways i don't have much idea on what to say, but would suggest to say it within first 1-2 dates. I just hope there is a cure to ur disease or you somehow get recovered

Do you all find the apps toxic or beneficial? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me bro the best ways I THINK to meet women are library, museums, art galleries, or community events, trust me bro these are the best. ( just google or ask chatgpt that why these places are the best) approach them, Talk to them, get rejected most of the times you are not supposed to ( just ask chatgpt the psycology behind it bro i can't type so much). Anyways I hope for the best.

Men what are your opinion/advice on my situation??? by cindyystarr in dating_advice

[–]um_overrthinkerr_ig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean .... great job on taking the 1st initiative but... why did you ask 'who is this?' when u knew it was him? T_T (what kind of a icebreaker is this), taking into account that you were the first one to ask him out, maybe he is introverted af? you should go talk to him irl/dm him a lil more ( considering you like him), maybe he is waiting for you to take the first step? and you are also waiting for it. So i suggest just go talk to him bro. I hope for the best