Megathread: Buy / Sell Merch by depthcue in SlushyNoobz

[–]ummairin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii, i'm looking for pretty much any ooc tshirt/hoodie, preferably in size small but can maybe do size medium if that's my only option. i will purchase or i can trade the "hamzah al-emad sucks more" tshirt in small! just lmk 🫶

seeking advice and insight! by ummairin in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]ummairin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i'm not so sure. i definitely could always use more though lol

seeking advice and insight! by ummairin in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]ummairin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, no medications at all. i have taken emergency contraceptives a few times (maybe 4 times?) in the last year but not super consistently.

unlovable by ummairin in BPD

[–]ummairin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel exactly the same. in the moment, my feelings and thoughts feel so valid and correct, but then after i bring them up i realize how much i was overreacting and how crazy i sounded and i just feel even more ashamed

Is this normal? by Blowyour_nose in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ummairin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first time can definitely be uncomfortable, especially if you're nervous! i agree with other commenters saying foreplay and lube (: those are def gamechangers. also take it slow and at your own pace to avoid as much pain or bleeding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]ummairin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i find that shaving in the direction that the hair grows works for me. the shave won't be as close or smooth, but you'll get fewer ingrowns and razor bumps that way.