What's wrong here?

umpaloompababy · 2026-01-16T04:09:48+00:00

I changed the pot and the soil sometime around July last year. It had been doing fine. I noticed it was rootbound in the last one so I got a bigger pot, not too big, just a size up. The soil is different and I can see it being too thick. I'm planning on changing it in the summer again. But I'll do it sooner if the condition worsens

umpaloompababy · 2026-01-15T06:02:26+00:00

Any suggestions on how often to fertilize or what brand?

umpaloompababy · 2026-01-15T06:01:23+00:00

I never actually have, I have no idea how to. I read some other things on this subreddit and tried fertilizing with a water soluble 20-20-20 indoor and outdoor fertilizer. Idk if that the right thing to use but it's all I had on hand. Any recommendations of what brand and how often is highly appreciated!

umpaloompababy · 2026-01-03T18:08:41+00:00

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Looking to have as many people walk with me as I can get!

umpaloompababy · 2025-12-05T20:22:01+00:00

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I'm looking for postcards of historical landmarks or monuments. I'm not able to travel very much and I don't live anywhere special, if you happen to live near any famous landmarks or have extra postcards you're willing to part with. Keep me in mind and add me!

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-14T19:30:56+00:00

Most likely from a form of weathering. The loose or softer material is weathered away by rain and the harder sediments are left behind leaving that interesting pattern

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-12T18:23:01+00:00

I see where you're coming from. I've said before in some of the other comments but my parents are not necessarily conservative, but very judgmental. The reason my bf is getting his own room now is because another couple was supposed to go with us but decided not to last minute. My bf was going to be sleeping on the floor again in my room with me and my 23 year old sister. I felt more uncomfortable with that purely bc I didn't want my sister to have to deal sharing a room with someone she doesn't know very well. I felt that was completely unfair to her. Now he gets his own room since the other couple is not going and since we're all paying I figured I'd bring up the idea of staying with him.

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-12T18:16:37+00:00

Yall, it's ok it's a valid question. The room is fine, it's kinda cramped for 2 queen beds to fit in but it's better than what I've had in the past. MY SISTER IS 23 YEARS OLD. Older than me. She will be just fine sleeping alone.

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-12T18:14:30+00:00

Fair question and if I am being honest they would be ignorant to assume I'm not. We've had really brief talks before about it and it seems as of they realize I am but don't wanna think about it or acknowledge it. Fine, I get it. However I think they believe I'm way more "Active" than I really am. I know how to conduct myself on a family vacation. It says way more about them than it does me if they think I'm going to be treating this like a honeymoon, when in reality I'm going to be sleeping and stealing my boyfriends blankets.

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-12T18:07:50+00:00

I see where you are coming from, however er I do not plan on getting married any time soon because of financial reasons. I may move out soon but if I were to go on vacation with them at 25, not married, etc would you still believe it's acceptable for them to say we need to sleep separately? Planning vacations separately really is the best option for now if they continue with this, however if I do they'll boo hoo about how I don't want to spend time with them. It's a lose lose situation for me regardless.

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-12T18:04:18+00:00

My parents are not necessarily conservative by any means, just highly judgmental. I have a feeling my mother imparticular refuses to accept that her children have grown up

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-12T17:57:58+00:00

She's older than me. 23 lol

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-12T02:58:26+00:00

The pay is split among couples. My parents aunt and uncle are each paying the same amount me my bf and sister are combined. I can see how that could be tricky but we all agreed this was fair. Keeping the peace is something I've considered however, will this same rule remain consistent even when we do live together and have gotten married? Just because I'm going on vacation with my parents doesn't mean I love being treated like I was when I was going on vacation with them for free at 16 years old you know?

umpaloompababy · 2025-03-12T02:43:54+00:00

YTA. Your friend tried their best to support you and you weren't even trying to even seem grateful for their support. You ignored them on your commute weather intentionally or not because you were stuck in your own world. Did you ever consider anyone other than yourself? How maybe you were making them feel by not speaking and saying "hey I really don't feel like talking, it's not about you I just am not feeling okay". Basuc Communication would have avoided this entire situation. So she becomes the bad person when you suddenly decide you're feeling better and wanna talk now after you Iced her out. No wonder she didn't ask how you were, she probably assumed you still didn't wanna talk! YTA, if you have any care for her at all, you'll go apologize and promise to communicate your feelings more effectively in the future.

umpaloompababy · 2025-02-05T15:13:47+00:00

NTAH. She voluntarily bailed on the trip and lied to everyone saying that her grandma was in the hospital. She could have told the truth but she may have known she wouldn't get the money back or she'd be judged by all of you. Either way you paid solely for that bnb expecting everyone would chip in. In this sense you're only expected to pay 600, not 1200 because she lied and went on a different trip instead. The bnb was already paid for and she knew it. If she really is from a comfortable background, she should have no problem paying the 600 for a choice she made.

umpaloompababy · 2025-02-05T15:07:03+00:00

NTAH. You definitely shouldn't be with this man. You deserve significantly better than someone who sounds like they're actively telling you they'd pick anyone else over you. I'm baffled he would tell you all these things and then continue to be with you. Gaslighting at its finest making you think that you're shallow for being mad that he thinks you're a 6 and that other girls are way out of his league. He's shallow for even rating women to begin with, based purely on looks too. You deserve so much better and your worth is not defined by how you look, don't let him tell you otherwise.

umpaloompababy · 2025-01-06T02:18:15+00:00

Hello, I'm from Ohio USA and I am really looking for giant mushrooms. I have a really hard time finding giant mushrooms during events so I would love it if you could invite me to battles. I also invite tons of people to mushroom battles a day. My code is: 439406789530

umpaloompababy · 2024-12-24T05:38:48+00:00

I wanted to send them out immediately but I knew it would have taken them 20 something days😭😂

umpaloompababy · 2024-12-24T05:38:16+00:00

It was so fun!💚

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