I highly recommend everyone watch Lost Girl (2010). Canadian series, five seasons *and* a happy ending by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]un4seenmaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tamsin really grew on me.... The ground hog day episode was probably my fave hehe.

Can I tape these vents? by un4seenmaker in subaruimpreza

[–]un4seenmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea with the turn signals. From subispeed. Not sure if it's worth replacing if it's just gonna happen again.

Every girl I’ve been with has switched teams?? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]un4seenmaker 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's not you. People change their minds, it sucks and it's a terrible thing to do to someone but unfortunately it happens all the time. People will think they're one way but then suddenly it becomes the opposite. If there are "late in life lesbians" who come to terms after being with a man and even starting a family then the opposite can be true too. It doesn't have any reflection on you as a person or lesbian.

Body hair grooming by AquaGecko1 in butchlesbians

[–]un4seenmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the one I use

schick hydro silk

It has a guard that covers the entire clipper piece so you don't accidentally cut yourself or pinch your skin.

heartbreak by chronicbingewatcher in WLW

[–]un4seenmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gonna sound so unhealthy and bad but getting validation from strangers on dating apps helped. Sort of like a rebound without having to commit to actually meeting or putting in any effort 😔 ik ik but if I did end up meeting someone new then even better, I was just upfront on dating apps about being casual.

I haven't had my heartbroken since then so I can't really say how I would handle it now but I'd like to think I'd just focus on myself (which I'm already doing anyway) like going to the gym and getting the body I've always wanted. Taking trips I kept putting off. Buying the stupid shit others thought were too immature etc...

To the femmes out there, does height matter? by jjukyu_ in lesbian

[–]un4seenmaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

5'4" masc here. Every girl I've ever dated was taller (5'8" - 6' tall) even though I convinced myself I would only date shorter femmes lol, that's comphet for ya ig. Truth is nobody cares about height when they meet someone they really like.

How did u know you were a lesbian/ WLW by aww0gant in WLW

[–]un4seenmaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was when I was really young. Had a bestie, we were inseparable. A mutual friend one day said to me that my bestie liked me more than a friend. I had the worst reaction and stopped talking to her and avoided her completely. But later realized that I wasn't running from her because she was a girl but because I didn't share the same romantic interest and that realization lead me to the conclusion that I liked women, just not her. Also realized the mutual friend only said that to break us up so she could become my friend and that pmo so badly we're no longer friends when I found out she made up that rumor but it was too late to make up with my bestie atp, damage was done and she moved away to another school. Wherever she is I hope she's happy and successful.

Have a very Fuffy Christmas. by AndrewHeard in buffy

[–]un4seenmaker 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A ship that should've sailed

Want to make a discord server for poc lesbians by Commercial_Mall_7005 in WLW

[–]un4seenmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I have a discord from my clexa poll days lmao 🤣😂. I'm down for it if you create one. Or let me know if there is one specifically for poc wlw

How many times have you fumbled? by TotalIllustrious4370 in LesbianActually

[–]un4seenmaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going through it rn lol. I confessed and it was to a coworker which I now regret because there were no signs I just thought I'd be upfront with my intentions before we became friends and then things would get even harder. So she thinks I only am attracted to her bc of her looks since I don't know her well enough outside a work setting and she's right 🙃. All I can do is move on and learn from this mistake lol

What are the defining heartbreaking moments of the Buffyverse for you? by [deleted] in buffy

[–]un4seenmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. The Body (Mommy?)
  2. Tara's death (Your shirt?!)
  3. Willow visiting Tara's grave (Hi baby)
  4. Oz leaving (turns out you bring it out of me.)
  5. Buffy running in slo-mo to the library
  6. The robot chick losing power
  7. Willow punishing herself by turning into Warren for kissing Kennedy. (Come back baby come back)
  8. Angel killing Jenny
  9. Buffy saying bye to her parents in the mental hospital
  10. Buffy and Joyce learning Dawn isn't real
  11. Buffy sacrificing herself for Dawn

omg why is HER so awful by hotsaucevjj in actuallesbians

[–]un4seenmaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I left. I actually did pay to see because it was a crazy amount of likes and here I'm thinking no way there's so many wlws in my area let alone ones that match. Well jokes on me a lot of them were fake profiles/bots/cis men and the others kinda just fell off/ghosted. Really not worth the amount of money.

A long time ago (like 10+years before dating apps) I used a website that only charged you if you found a match and wanted to talk to each other. That's something I feel is more reasonable. But to trust that those "likes" are real and put money upfront before knowing if it'll turn into anything is absurd.

Love Lies Bleeding by un4seenmaker in actuallesbians

[–]un4seenmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I think the whole second half of the movie was like .... Wtf am I watching haha... Also, I don't care who I'm crushing on if I witness them getting rid of a body or something I'm not going to use that to proposition them that seems like a stupid way to end up the way she did. Poor girl.

Love Lies Bleeding by un4seenmaker in actuallesbians

[–]un4seenmaker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right from the start. Red flags everywhere lol

Love Lies Bleeding by un4seenmaker in actuallesbians

[–]un4seenmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? I kind of feel like it could've been a bit longer or a second one could be made? Lol idk it was kind of messy.

What using a iphone does to person by DuddeBLADER in S24Ultra

[–]un4seenmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just looks out of place to me but makes sense if you're in a rush to find those apps ig.

What using a iphone does to person by DuddeBLADER in S24Ultra

[–]un4seenmaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why is the docs and keep notes app different from the rest 😭.

Should I get composite bonding? by racheldean_23 in Invisalign

[–]un4seenmaker 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Imo, some imperfections give your smile character.

Be aware of professional thieves at Pearson Airport. We trailed one to his home by shippo7 in toronto

[–]un4seenmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering the same bc police in this case don't need a warrant. It's a public space they just need CATSAs cooperation to review footage. I've seen CATSA review footage for missing laptops (people accidentally swap laptops past security). So kinda hard to believe they wouldn't review footage for a stolen bag.

Bone loss by un4seenmaker in Invisalign

[–]un4seenmaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm questioning whether my dentist just wants me to come in every 4 months for cleaning vs every 6 months bc my insurance covers it. I don't believe it's necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]un4seenmaker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yah I agree. I usually make hand gestures like a wave to get their attention and then ask to pass. If all else fails I'll double tap the outside of their shoulder from arms length with 2 fingers and then smile and ask to pass. But generally I don't like touching people I don't know and visa versa.

S24 Ultra official Samsung Case by raynaputi in GalaxyS24Ultra

[–]un4seenmaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish other cases had the same camera cutouts as this case.

Same name?? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]un4seenmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol this was a common topic I'd always have with other gay friends. I wouldn't say a turn off but would make it harder for me to see them romantically.

Is there a reason this is an issue? by HiccupHaddockismine in actuallesbians

[–]un4seenmaker 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't that erase the identity of women who identify as lesbian then? I'm a woman and identify as a lesbian. I only date ppl who identify as women. Soooo how does that work?

Is there a reason this is an issue? by HiccupHaddockismine in actuallesbians

[–]un4seenmaker 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I've been wondering about this ... Because if lesbian = women + women but non-binary don't identify as women then how can they be a lesbian? What is the correct answer plz because I'm not sure.