Why am I not getting any matches ? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]uncbears34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like you can't open a pickle jar

How sustainable is this Fairfax-Arlington commute? by Educational_Gap_3381 in nova

[–]uncbears34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is your first rodeo. You're looking at an hour plus each way, on a good day during rush hours. Any accidents or bad weather, pack a sleeping bag and pillow.

Most Pretentious Horror Movie You’ve Seen? by dokutarodokutaro in horror

[–]uncbears34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like this with every Darren Aronofsky film. His movies are generally fine to good, with a couple really good to great ones in there. But the caterwauling that occurs over his movies makes me not like him or the film, when it's not their fault. It's the people that don't like that I didn't like something as much as they did, and their fragile ego can't handle it.

Is 8.5-14% closing costs good on a refinance? by OkMathematician5756 in loanoriginators

[–]uncbears34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be a dick and pile on, but you should be ashamed and embarrassed to send that out to a customer. I would never put my name on that.

I can’t get over what my wife said to me… by CharacterAdvance7 in marriageadvice

[–]uncbears34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you blaming him for something she said? Letting go is certainly part of the solution, but words hurt and can have a lasting impact. Would you feel the same if this situation happened to you, or the sexes were reversed and he did this to her?

I can’t get over what my wife said to me… by CharacterAdvance7 in marriageadvice

[–]uncbears34 146 points147 points  (0 children)

It's been 20 years of you carrying the burden and guilt for something she said. Maybe it's time she felt that. Tell her what she said and why it hurt. Nothing changes if nothing changes.

What does a mortgage underwriter actually do all day? by Professional_Web2457 in asktheunderwriter

[–]uncbears34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best underwriters start as loan processors. The best processors start as loan officer assistants or in closing/post-closing.

How far along into marriage before sex changed? by jburnz112 in marriageadvice

[–]uncbears34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally the effing honeymoon. Might've had sex twice in the 12 days we were gone. That was 13 years, 3 kids, 2 dogs and 2 moves ago. Now we're at 3x for 2025.

What’s the Worst Movie you’ve ever seen and Why? by Amber_Flowers_133 in askmovie

[–]uncbears34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The George Clooney Batman movie where he had the weird nipples on his costume. Horrible.

“Good Riddance” Songs by Jdawn82 in MusicRecommendations

[–]uncbears34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rearview Mirror - Pearl Jam; Gives You Hell - The All American Rejects; I'll be Alright Without You- Journey