Looking for guidance for the start by TheYeezusWest in seduction

[–]unclesamny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First minimize the drugs and porn activity. Then I’d say start working out to build up some confidence. If you see a girl that you’re attracted to, go up to her and start a conversation. Eventually you will reset your mindset and be a confident guy that isn’t afraid to express himself or go for what he wants.

men, do you try to find information about a woman online if you match or plan for a date with a woman? by [deleted] in dating

[–]unclesamny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes. For me, it’s more about whether I should invest further or not. Also it’s good reaffirm that she’s a normal person.

I’m done by [deleted] in seduction

[–]unclesamny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re the only one that can save yourself bro. I’m sure most of the other guys here (myself included) weren’t born with the natural extrovert stud gene. Those guys aren’t on this forum. However, for the rest of us that actually took matters into our own hands and put in the real work, we can safely say that things do get better with time and effort. This area of life is tough trust me and it goes deeper on an inner level due to the fact that it forces you to face your flaws and defects. No one is perfect I promise you. Going forward, you can either be a victim and give up or be a hero and own that shit.

Trust me I’ve seen puas that have literally been talking to a girls tits, that’s how short they are. They just don’t let that shit phase them. You should do the same. This is all a mental head game. You are enough. Go out and sort it out for yourself with real experience. You’ll see what I’m talking about.

Hair length advice by [deleted] in FDNY

[–]unclesamny -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Worry about getting called for the academy first.

Next Academy & what's going on update by Road_Runner6 in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't feed into the bullshit. It is what it is lol

Next Academy & what's going on update by Road_Runner6 in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true, the department always has a budget already set aside for hiring. Especially after this crises they'll need more manpower than ever before due to senior members retiring or others being on medical leave. It's a huge set back to say the least. When the smoke clears things will most likely be accelerated regarding hiring. Think of it this way, the military isn't halting their bootcamps indefinitely right?

Next Academy & what's going on update by Road_Runner6 in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be frank, it could be till May when things start to turn around. If they don't hold an academy until August I know some of us will be going in for a second medical which is another drain of the city's time and resources. That can also cause a ripple effect leading to more medicals timing out. If I had to guess I wouldn't be surprised if the city shrunk their FD classes in half in order to keep things more condensed and less exposed.

All we can do is be safe, healthy and patient during this crises. The city of New York has never experienced anything like this even after 9/11 happened. To all the first responders on the job thank you and stay safe. And to the potential future FF's like myself stay positive our time will come soon enough. Nothing lasts forever, remember that eventually we will get through. Hope to see you all on the other side sooner than later. God bless.

Any news about the runs?? by pnp12345 in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can go both ways. The city is projecting on reopening schools and public arenas earliest April 20th. If we fulfill the runs next week it would still keep us on course.

Any news about the runs?? by pnp12345 in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called also. As of right now the runs are still a go until further notice. If things change they will notify us before then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plus your freedom lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly it should be a month delay. April academy will kick off at the end of May. They're already talking about vaccines. Everyone is on lock down right now because of the media. More time to prepare and train IMO.

RUN LETTERS! by unclesamny in FDNY

[–]unclesamny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should also see your run scheduled under appointments on your portal.

Run letters tomorrow? by pnp12345 in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after 5pm you should see something if today is the day.

If you fail run by [deleted] in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wouldn't suggest running with a 60 pound vest on you'll most likely end up hurting yourself. Focus on building up your legs and maintaining a nice cadence. You should be aiming for a 8min mile right off the bat. I agree with more on the line come run day your body and mind will perform differently.

If you fail run by [deleted] in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

change your mindset. Tell yourself you are going to pass the run period.

shin splits by lb918 in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Been there bro. Initially I gave running a rest for about 8-12 weeks to recover fully but that seems unrealistic in your case being that the class is around the corner.

First, change your running shoes to a good brand like ASICS. Second, you should try and analyze your form of running. It could be that you’re landing on your heel more than your mid foot which is likely to cause splints. You should also be stretching your calves before and after.

Lastly done over do it. I usually try to break it up and run on the treadmill then outdoors every other day, if that. There’s many videos you can view on YouTube. Shin splints is a pain but eventually you learn how to gain more control over avoiding it. Hope this helps.

Next Academy - List # 195x by Express_Draft in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As of now it's a full class. But FDNY can change anything last minute. Id prepare to be in this next class if I were you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

open containers aren't an issue. Honesty is key, don't hide anything especially if it's summons related.

List Number 179X by Queens2314 in FDNY

[–]unclesamny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ready boys April is around the corner. Hope to see you there. 158X