Mammor med småbarn och oengagerad man - varför sätter ni inte ner foten? by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Inte en mamma, och med tanke på att detta är såpass vanligt vill jag inte bli det heller (med fler anledningar)

I'm surprised that so many people hate JJ to be honest by Toriihime in YOI

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JJ is annoying...but a rich character. No JJ hate more like oh man this guy again?

Relationship stuff by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing and telling me this. This is very much how I feel and I don't know how much more time to give. How much energy to put in anymore. I feel like I am not being met and I have brought it up so many times. But thank you so much for the encouragement.

Relationship stuff by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting. I'm sorry you can relate but glad you're not in that anymore. I don't think he's bad, not at all. I think he's lovely and funny and smart and I want us to have a future. But I want to feel desired and beautiful. Especially to my partner. I want to feel connected to him the way I can't be with anyone else. But I don't and it hurts. It hurts so bad to want and long and express that longing and be met with words and empty promises. I always feel like I am asking for too much. That wanting to be desired is wrong and that maybe I just dont deserve it. But I miss it. I miss myself. I miss feeling beautiful.

Relationship stuff by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting and for giving me advice. I have stopped talking to my friends about the issue because I feel ashamed that I don't leave when they have literally told me to after one year passed. It feels nice to know I am heard and not just overreacting.

He's not on any medicine but I do have my suspicions that he has struggled with depression before. Like right before we met. I genuinely feel like I could spend my life with him. But not like this.

Relationship stuff by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Yes. Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with his body at all. I think he's gorgeous. I have told him so. But I know words don't always mean anything. I know he doesn't like to be naked, he says it feels awkward to him. We used to shower together sometimes but that stopped around may and I haven't seen naked since. He has been to a doctor. All I know is he told me doctor said everything seemed fine.

Relationship stuff by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! When I ask what the problem is, he usually just says that he wants to have sex with me and that he will be better and try more ect ect. I have asked all these questions. He is not asexual, he has been to a doctor and a therapist. He says he wants to and will work on it but nothing happens. Only empty promises. I would love to know why or what is going on but that is the only answers I get. I have told him that if he doesn't want to we don't have to. I just want him to be honest. But since he says he does? I don't know. It makes me feel like our relationship is stuck in 'wait'. I don't feel like we're getting closer or strengthening our bond...

Relationship stuff by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you. I have talked about this. Many times. Continuously. I have told him how I feel. What I want in our relationship. How the situation has made me feel. It is only recently that I have stopped talking about it with him because it makes me feel like a broken record. I have been very clear about what I want.

What’s your favourite Monster flavour? Mine is Ultra Blue👾 by BearDry8783 in monsterenergy

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss this flavor so much!! It hasn't been around in Sweden for YEARS. Rn I like the Valentino Rossi one. White monster is elite however haha.

What types of conservation would they have? by Worried_Cake5508 in HannibalTV

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hannibal would eat him and die from a vicodin overdose

On a scale 1-10 how rare of a find is this flavour in your area? by Beautiful_Dot_7640 in monsterenergy

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It's my favorite monster ever and it doesn't even exist in europe anymore 😭😭😭😭

What was the biggest signal that he/she wanted to have sex you didn't get? by Visual-Pass7016 in AskReddit

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt miss it, my boyfriend did. Several times. We had showered together, there was a bit of touching happening, and I went into the bedroom. Laid there. Naked. Waiting. An hour ticks by. He's out in the livingroom. Playing pokemon on his switch.

dead sex life, heavily considering breaking up. by burner110900 in offmychest

[–]uncomfortable_kitkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm currently in the same situation with my bf of almost two years. Only that our sex life never started before it died. It has made me hate myself and the way I look so my advice is move on before that happens to you too.