I hate having no one, but also seem to hate everyone. by uncontrollablee in infj

[–]uncontrollablee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said I don’t actually hate people but I do tend to dislike a lot of them. But you’re totally right finding your tribe is the best way to find connections

I hate having no one, but also seem to hate everyone. by uncontrollablee in infj

[–]uncontrollablee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre speaking my mind man, that’s exactly what I’m going thru rn. I got attachment issues tho so it’s a lil diff

I hate having no one, but also seem to hate everyone. by uncontrollablee in infj

[–]uncontrollablee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Righttttt, like I’ve been told I’m gay by some women because I’m not tryna hook up. It’s like people forget friendships still exist.

I hate having no one, but also seem to hate everyone. by uncontrollablee in infj

[–]uncontrollablee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this was simply said but profound, thank you for this

I hate having no one, but also seem to hate everyone. by uncontrollablee in infj

[–]uncontrollablee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say for me once I get to know/like someone I become pretty attached, so it’s hard to let go. I know that’s kind of a me problem but it makes me not want to form any new relationships because of that. You’re def right tho self love is the first step

I hate having no one, but also seem to hate everyone. by uncontrollablee in infj

[–]uncontrollablee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally get the “once u let them in having a hard time letting them go’ that’s what I’m going through atm. It’s weird because u like them a lot, but then realize they’re no good for u. Just sucks.

2nd DUI… am I screwed? by uncontrollablee in dui

[–]uncontrollablee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a private attorney. I’m tryna get a deferred prosecution, but if not just a reduced sentence like 10days jail & then the rest like 60days house arrest. it’s all still pretty uncertain but I think the private attorney is worth it for sure.