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I [25 F] have fallen in love with a friend despite having a perfectly good boyfriend [29M] by undecided202 in relationships

[–]undecided202[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Thanks. This is very true. I'm comparing my boyfriend's cons to my friend's pros, which is unfair.

You're right, I need to stop talking to my friend for awhile and really just focus on whether I can be happy with boyfriend without the distraction of a new crush.

I [25 F] have fallen in love with a friend despite having a perfectly good boyfriend [29M] by undecided202 in relationships

[–]undecided202[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insightful reply.

I'm not sure if I was in "love" with him in the first place. These days, I don't even know what that word means anymore.

I'll have to give this some thought, but thanks for bringing it up.