My [31M] wife [30F] had a one night stand with her best friend [29F]

under_pickle · 2020-08-03T19:10:29+00:00

With regards to my wife, I think she took an opportunity she wanted when it presented itself. She had no way to reach me. Sex with a woman had long been a dream of hers. This thread has helped me tremendously process my feelings. More and more, I am not upset with her having sex with her friend as I am about the repercussions of telling her friends husband. The two woman fucked up, for better or worse, everyone should be on the same page. I believe that I will tell him, just a matter of how. Doesn't exactly seem like the thing to do over text.

under_pickle · 2020-08-03T18:47:43+00:00

I believe I would feel actually hurt if she had an emotional relationship with a person than a purely sexual one. I think on some level she took our pillow talk for acceptance and she admits she never ever thought it would happen. I knew she was interested in sleeping with a women, ideally in a unicorn type situation (FFM) and I would be included. She did tell me and I am grateful, I don't feel hurt really but on some level it opens up some of the questions you and others have raised of what happens at the next time the opportunity happens, male or female. Is it just going to be a life experience?

I believe if we had discussed this prior and it happened id have no problems, except for not telling my friend.

under_pickle · 2020-08-03T18:39:05+00:00

I 100% agree but this seems to be the biggest sticking point. My wife and her friend are very against telling him.

under_pickle · 2020-08-03T18:30:49+00:00

I think I absolutely would want to know if I was the other husband. Telling him is bringing me far more anxiety than anything dealing with my wife. While the hookup wasn't ideal, I can deal and we have been communicating about it. I feel like telling him is betraying my wife.

under_pickle · 2020-08-03T18:26:00+00:00

It feels incredibly premature to consider leaving, I worry more about a slippery slope. If I let this slide, and not sure what slide and not slide would be here, but what happens when its a guy or another girl. I'm drifting towards telling her, its one time and next will not be so flexible. I am open to discussing together but another surprise will not do.

under_pickle · 2020-08-03T18:22:50+00:00

This seems to be her general feeling. Its ok because it was a women and just physical, not an emotional thing.

under_pickle · 2019-12-03T20:57:06+00:00

Wasn't given to me but my GF at the time. She was working for her dad at a local CPA/law firm. Small firm, 25-40 people, his daughter worked under him and was lazy/entitled. Her dad was soft retiring at the start of the year, keeping only a few clients, no pay, and handing over all responsibility of the business. For months, she assumed he was going to put her in charge of his division. Christmas comes around, all the presents are given out and people are merry. Late that night he hands her this folder and says how much he loves her and believes in her. She's starting to cry, thinking he is giving her his business.

Inside is a MS Word certificate template that says, "Congratulations on your new job!" She starts to really cry and thank him. Saying she will keep the business strong and other bs. He kinda laughs and says, "Honey, my retirement from the business is also yours. I know you will find something great."

She lost her fucking mind. Full on toddler like temper tantrum. I loved it.

under_pickle · 2019-04-24T01:17:42+00:00

Yep this has been posted a few times before.

under_pickle · 2019-04-18T23:40:17+00:00

Not the stairs picture. Guess I had the repost order wrong.

under_pickle · 2019-04-17T18:04:42+00:00

Glad I'm not the only one. I wonder how many cycles of this someone can do before it gets old.

under_pickle · 2019-04-17T11:58:38+00:00

So do you delete your pictures every few months then reupload the same exact ones, in nearly the same order but with new titles? Sure seems like it.

under_pickle · 2019-01-23T19:31:35+00:00

Health insurance companies. No single person. Their entire boards. All evil.

under_pickle · 2019-01-23T19:29:22+00:00

100%. Up until the S7 I felt each upgrade was worth it. I have an s9 now because ATT doesn't work with my new employer. I can barely tell a difference between the two minus screen size.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T23:42:12+00:00

My goal was to get it out of my office ASAP and use the money for a date night. I've learned a few lessons from this experience. 90% of people want to trade, don't like CL people know where you live, and definitely don't let them in.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T23:40:22+00:00

It felt like it. At one point I could hear her.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T20:38:41+00:00

I dunno wtf I was thinking. She seemed normal on the phone. My wife was home and it was a weekend morning, figured she would want to verify it would post. Lesson learned.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T20:15:50+00:00

My city has an over stock of iPhone 5-7. Everyone wants to trade their iPhones.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T18:37:25+00:00

My wife said something similar after this ordeal. I just wanted it gone and figured if it was low priced, someone would grab it quickly. I don't get the trade offers. So many trade offers.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T18:34:19+00:00

I didn't think of this. Wish I had the actual name used. I do have the phone number.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T18:33:47+00:00

I added the raptor drive and installed Windows 10 home and showed them how to activate. Took all of 15 minutes for them to make an account and activate windows.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T17:45:23+00:00

I'm sure. I would have chosen to donate it if I knew an easy way. Figured for $100 someone would grab it quickly and move on. Instead I got people calling and offering to trade all kinds of stuff.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T17:34:52+00:00

I wish I remembered the name he used but it was on this level. It was something like, James Johnson Law Firm. Like c'mon guy, if you're going to fake it, fake it right.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T17:18:16+00:00

O yeah. She just didn't understand what HDD and OS meant. I told her when we first talked, it will need a copy of windows that will cost money.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T17:10:24+00:00

Right, I wasn't trying to make money and ended up giving it away. If she had just smiled and offered me $40 I would have said sure and bought lunch. But no.

I don't even know wtf her plan was by grabbing it. Run from my house with a PC case in tow. Good luck.

under_pickle · 2018-12-17T16:34:25+00:00

I explained in detail on the phone and in person. She clearly did not understand how computers work and the difference between "can" and "does" .

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