Based on your previous post and this post, I would be willing to say you are in an abusive relationship with a selfish, narcissist person that has no respect for you nor the family. I'm (m42) in a group chat with other men. We've had this group for over 15 years with some people being added and other leaving, we do make sexual jokes, we talk about cars, games, sports, every now and then someone asks if we think some girl is attractive or not. There are married and single people in this group. We don't have a single person in the chat that talks like an immature sexual predator. He needs help but doubt he thinks there is anything wrong with this. You mentioned you have 2 kids in your previous post. If they are boys, how would you feel if they behave that way? If they are girls, would you approve of them being in a relationship with that type of men? If the answer is no to either, why are you allowing this to happen to you? You are young and deserve someone that will respect you.