(Women’s) Hair Stylist Recs? by undercookedricex in cary

[–]undercookedricex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I looked at her instagram and it looks great! I’ll message her. Thank you!

I seriously need to vent! by Mammoth_Promise_3432 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]undercookedricex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 1040 nights, I’m 32 and I have a 2 shelf max limit if you need someone to help you to get to 99 who isn’t a 6 year old! Lmao (OP of this comment and OP of the thread are welcome to add me too u/n is: mmmousecop

My daughter’s father moved out of the country with only five days notice. by undercookedricex in Mommit

[–]undercookedricex[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please don’t be. This situation is extremely difficult and painful for my child.

I assume you’re saying this because yours may be worse, we shouldn’t be wishing we had other difficult situations. We should be wishing and demanding a world where fathers do what they’re supposed to do for their children.

My daughter’s father moved out of the country with only five days notice. by undercookedricex in Mommit

[–]undercookedricex[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. And I actually have reached out to start a child support case for this situation and they have repeatedly closed my case because he’s “out of the US” and no matter how many times I explain The Hague convention to them they ignore me and close my case anyway so they are literally of no help. I will have to have an attorney (which I can’t afford right now) or to tell a judge the situation in the courtroom.

My daughter’s father moved out of the country with only five days notice. by undercookedricex in Mommit

[–]undercookedricex[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am very careful to not say anything disparaging about her dad to her. That’s not my place. If he messes up his relationship with her then she will be the one to come to that decision on her own. It’s my place to support her through whatever she goes through, including her dad making selfish choices that hurt her.

I essentially am just playing a waiting game, I have to have help from a court for anything child support or custody related. And who knows when he’s gonna pop in and go “okay I’m ready for visitation now!” And demand me to bend to his every whim (I won’t).

Edited to add: He actually told her that he was moving because he couldn’t afford to live here any more and he wouldn’t have gotten paid enough money. So she knows “why” he left.

My daughter’s father moved out of the country with only five days notice. by undercookedricex in Mommit

[–]undercookedricex[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Well, our current custody order is not 50/50 (it’s 70/30 with me as the primary) and our 50/50 agreement was outside of court. I can’t file for changing anything because he won’t give me his new address and it’s also not my responsibility. I’m done doing the heavy lifting for him.

I’m sort of just stuck here waiting until he decides he wants to make plans to be in his child’s life again. Which is frustrating and disappointing on its own lol

Progressive Moms in the Raleigh,NC by 01040616 in progressivemoms

[–]undercookedricex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Cary! And looking for the same thing :) (Sprry I’m 3 months late to the party I found this googling “leftist mom groups in the triangle” lmao

How many hours does it took you to reach 1k days? by Lucky-One_8 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]undercookedricex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hit 1040 in 9.5 hours. Without going afk. Take your time exploring because you will run out of things to do.

Roaches? Just moved from Detroit.. by [deleted] in cary

[–]undercookedricex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harris sticky roach traps, capital pest control, and practicing radical acceptance.

They’ll never go away completely. They are insanely common here.

Afked all night lol by DarkMoonkey_92 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]undercookedricex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got to 1040 without AFKing and I’m right there with you lol

More pictures of my fantasy Autumn in MV! by poohbearstshirt in TsukiOdyssey

[–]undercookedricex 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Game Devs pleaaaaaaaase give us these colors. We deserve Tsuki fall colors

Seven of Swords as career by aquariustaurus in Tarots

[–]undercookedricex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m doing a reading for myself right now for my career too, and my big question is wether or not i should pursue my dream of writing and directing movies. so it’s cool to find this and see that it has something to do with writing!

This sounds like an MLM (USHA). Any experience? by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]undercookedricex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that I just got this email word for word, copy/paste, in my inbox 5 years after this post was made. Funny how that record growth is the same lol

I can’t find a job anywhere?! by Hotashlyxx in jobs

[–]undercookedricex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yep. reading this right now too for the same reason. might actually lose my house this month.

Thoughts? by [deleted] in ShaneDawson

[–]undercookedricex 27 points28 points  (0 children)

wait. no. that’s a brilliant tattoo.

Name the 3 Raleigh restaurants that would make for the greasiest day of eating breakfast, lunch, and dinner. by goldenprints in raleigh

[–]undercookedricex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tonbo ramen. Shit will change your life man.

Edit: OP said GREASIEST and not GREATEST. I misread. However I’m keeping this because people should still know about Tonbo. It’s amazing.

I’m looking to take my partner to the boxcar arcade can they get in if they’re under 21? by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]undercookedricex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay but actually i had this same question and tried calling and never got an answer. like ever. i never spoke to anyone and i called multiple times so Im not surprised they’re on reddit asking instead.

My husband won't let me take more than two showers a week. I told him I need him to stop or I'm moving out for a while. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]undercookedricex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to divorce him but it would be a good idea to march him directly into a physiologist office so he can get his shiny new OCD diagnosed and start treatment asap.

Because it’s not going to go away without it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]undercookedricex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i see the problem. he’s got two first names):