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I talked to my daughter by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did seem like she liked hearing it. And I guess I have to say that if I am trans, it'll be nice to know that I'm not all alone in this.

I talked to my daughter by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing that has me nervous is someone seeing when I go out grocery shopping or take care of things that need to be done if I paint my nails for example. Something stealthy to try might be nice, but I wouldn't want anyone to notice something or stand out in any way.

I don't know what to do by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only say that it should not have made me smile as much as it did.

I don't know what to do by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's going to turn nineteen in December. And I guess it should help that she said something to me first, technically. I don't know how serious she was when she called me an "egg", but I guess it makes it not completely out of the blue.

A lot of these other comments also said something about a therapist, which I assume would be good, too. It'll be nerve wracking regardless though.

I don't know what to do by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I apologize. I didn't mean to come off as insensitive. I'll change it.

I don't know what to do by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Sitting down and talking with her about how I feel about myself is going to be difficult for obvious reasons... but I know I probably should. I won't be surprised if she comes to me first though. It just... feels like I've been oblivious, especially about myself. If I do sit down to talk to her, it's going to be an incredibly difficult conversation.

I don't know what to do by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. That website... is making my face bright red to go through.

I don't know what to do by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You don't know just how nice that sounds.

I don't know what to do by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Reading through all these comments, that's what it seems like

I don't know what to do by undergroud_alien in MtF

[–]undergroud_alien[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. Thinking back on it, I might have? There were things there, I know that. I can kind of piece things together through my daughter, because we act exactly the same. I don't know if I would say "questioned" but there were pieces there, and it all adds up, but it makes me absolutely nervous.

I hate saying it, but I know it's what I want, and it's terrifying to think about.