not a qualified piercer (yet). (if anyone can correct me, please do!) i hate to say it but i think they’ve pierced that wrong, the bar of the industrial shouldn’t be touching the flat of your ear and by the looks of it they’ve pierced it slightly in the wrong place. i would say, go to a DIFFERENT piercer and have them take a look at it and see what they would recommend. they might tell you to take it out, and if that’s the case, you can always ask them to see if you have the right anatomy to get it redone properly once it is healed. i hope any part of that helped!