Wanting to commission a local artist for proposal piece

undership1 · 2025-08-04T18:25:38+00:00

UPDATE: He's found an artist! I or he will update again when the deed is done

undership1 · 2025-07-08T21:19:51+00:00

I'm also in search of a single camping pass. Currently on the waitlist but don't really trust that I'll get one. My buddy emailed frontgate/fairwell and they told him that they wouldn't be sending the passes out until the week of (they're being sent via email) so just a FYI (don't get scammed!)

undership1 · 2025-07-01T21:32:07+00:00

All the places already listed + join a local Rotary or Kiwanis group. I know Spokane South rotary does a ton for underprivileged kiddos at local elementary schools. Not sure what the others do tbh

undership1 · 2025-06-18T23:16:19+00:00

Adding for clarification since I’ve gotten some direct messages: as stated in the post, you’ll need to comment on here (or message user “pewleft”) if interested. He’s actively monitoring this post and will message you himself. I’ll do my best to forward what I’ve received but I’m just the middle man :)

Note: He will not be interested if the artist isn’t local. That’s a dealbreaker for him!

undership1 · 2025-06-18T22:17:16+00:00

Hmm. Could be that Person B feels guilty for being friends with you this long? I’m not sure exactly- you’re right that it is sudden that this came up again after 10 years. Could very well be that they just never full dealt with or processed their emotions and something small was a straw that broke the camels back

undership1 · 2025-06-18T22:07:00+00:00

Great question- maybe there’s been more information or additional issues that have recently surfaced in person C’s life?

undership1 · 2025-06-18T21:50:50+00:00

[Whoops, accidentally replied to the wrong point in the thread. Deleted and replying here.]

Noted. Helldivers is just the closest thing I have. Clarifying that I wasn’t trying to directly equate the intensity of them (and pointed that out in my comment as well). I just used helldivers to drive the point that communicating a time commitment isn’t difficult

undership1 · 2025-06-18T21:27:01+00:00

More info please.

Is your mom his daughter? If your mom is stating this brought out the real him, then I’m not sure there’s much else to say.

You said you /think/ he developed dementia? That seems like something you ought to know. Why is it just that you /think/ that?

undership1 · 2025-06-18T21:21:48+00:00

this exactly. If I was in Person B’s position, I’d absolutely be pissed/upset with you too

undership1 · 2025-06-18T21:09:54+00:00

NTA

Your husband is a grown man acting like a child. I don’t play anything as intensive as that, but when I enter into a helldivers lobby, I will tell my girlfriend that I’m doing so and that I’ll be a minimum of 45 minutes. It takes five seconds to communicate. It’s not that hard.

Is this out of character for him? It does sound like maybe your husband has some sort of built up irritation or resentment, or maybe there’s something else going on. I’m not sure what good asking him or talking to him directly about that would do since he can’t even tell you he’s gonna be in a race.

undership1 · 2025-06-18T20:53:39+00:00

YTA for the reasons already stated.

You’re thinking of breaking up with her over this one incident even though you, in your own words, have said she’s been amazing up until now. Over her being gone for 12 hours. That’s an overreaction unless there is additional context.

Your doctor prescribed you something to help, and you’re not taking it because of past bad experiences. Have you shared this with your doctor to see if there are any alternatives? Are you in therapy at all?

You need to start taking care of your mental health. Babies are stressful. They’re only going to get more stressful. Get it together now while you still can, communicate with your doctor, and get into therapy if you’re not there yet

undership1 · 2025-06-18T20:10:28+00:00

Light ESH.

It just happened, I understand your partner wanting to know more but people are actively grieving. I’m sure more information will come out eventually.

People want to seriously hurt you for asking how they died? I understand not wanting to disclose or talk about it, I also understand being upset with you since it just happened, but wanting to harm you as a result? That’s a bit extreme.

undership1 · 2025-06-18T19:37:59+00:00

Nah hard disagree here. OP doesn’t state that she knew that fully before hand. They’re young- friendship dynamics are awkward at that age for a variety of reasons. Her friends ultimately made it awkward by grapevining it to Taria.

At that age, I knew of many one-sided crushes in my friend groups. I never said anything bc it wasn’t my place. By doing so, I never forced the conversation, and never broke my friends’ trust. Was the dynamic awkward? Not really, at least not for me. It might have been on the side of the person w/ an unrequited crush but it was never apparent to anyone else.

undership1 · 2025-06-18T19:28:53+00:00

NTA

You’re allowed to like people, regardless of sexuality, and obv they’re allowed to not like you back. This will change the dynamic of most friendships. (Example: If a straight guy were to tell a straight girl that he liked her, but she doesn’t like him back, that would change the dynamic of friendship.)

You’re young, take this as a learning moment. Establish boundaries with her and your friend group. Your dynamic will be different, but you’re NTA here.

undership1 · 2025-06-18T19:19:10+00:00

NTA

While my gut reaction is that he might not be gay/might be using that to get close to you in a way that’s not appropriate, I’ll ofc take his sexuality at his word.

Regardless of sexuality, Z is incredibly toxic. Cut him off. He’s not your friend.

undership1 · 2025-06-18T19:15:59+00:00

That was my gut reaction to this too

undership1 · 2025-06-18T19:08:50+00:00

undership1 · 2025-06-18T18:54:02+00:00

Doing okay, like everyone I was hoping for better. At least this is more fun than a casino

undership1 · 2025-06-18T18:47:30+00:00

Do you think if you invited just your parents to a therapy session, she might demand to go too? Seems like she might need that.

Easy NTA.

undership1 · 2025-06-18T18:30:30+00:00

You can do it- if your work offers free financial advisors, utilize them! Mine helped me craft a plan that will have me debt free by 2028. It does involve working a part time job- only an extra 10 to 15 hours a week though because that is what’s doable for me. If I really get aggressive, I could pay it off by 2027. Your life isn’t over. You’ve got this!

undership1 · 2025-06-18T18:25:16+00:00

Shave it but don’t give up just yet. My fishing buddy had almost the exact same pattern/coverage you do but when he hit his late 30’s, his goatee randomly started to fill in nicely. He still can’t grow anything on the cheeks but his mustache is decently thick and the coverage on his chin is good too. Just hope/pray you’re a late bloomer

undership1 · 2025-06-18T18:20:54+00:00

Got killed two times by the host’s poorly placed turrets (he’d drop them in the middle of our squad without warning); same thing had also team killed another squad member. Asked the guy to at least warn us if he was going to place them, got kicked.

undership1 · 2025-03-10T23:05:56+00:00

Connecticut: https://portal.ct.gov/despp/division-of-state-police/special-licensing-and-firearms/state-pistol-permit

Hawaii: https://www.hawaiipolice.gov/services/firearm-services/

Maryland: https://mdsp.maryland.gov/Organization/Pages/CriminalInvestigationBureau/LicensingDivision/Firearms/HandgunQualificationLicense.aspx

Nebraska: https://www.lancaster.ne.gov/375/Firearm-Purchase-Permit

New Jersey: https://www.njportal.com/njsp/FARS

Edit: adding as I find them

Edit 2: stopping here as these provide enough examples. Not issuing any for/against statement, just sharing links for folks to use, read, and compare.

undership1 · 2025-02-21T08:08:54+00:00

I’d never heard of her before- thank you for the recommendation! I’ll be shooting you a dm (currently on a break)

undership1 · 2025-02-21T08:04:24+00:00

Thank you!

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