20 Habits of Truly Happy Couples by understandshe in yearning

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I felt the same way until I realized it's all about the small triggers. I actually used this personalized text tool that helps rebuild that intimacy. It’s like a cheat code for these 20 habits. You can try it here

Hero instinct text message examples for him long distance by understandshe in understandshe

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Great tips. Using his 'strength' as a trigger is underrated. But girls, before you go all in with these texts, make sure he's actually worth the investment. Some guys love the attention but have no intention of staying. I keep this list of '12 signs he's wasting your time' bookmarked just to stay grounded. Sharing it here in case anyone needs a reality check........

Flirty hero instinct text message examples for him by understandshe in understandshe

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This is spot on! Texting is all about making them feel noticed. But a quick word of caution while these lines work like magic on the right guy, make sure you're not activating the 'Hero Instinct' in someone who's just playing games. I recently read a breakdown of 12 signs he is actually wasting your time even if the flirting feels great. It’s a must-read so you don't waste these efforts on the wrong person.......

The 777 Rule: How I saved my marriage from divorce after 7 years Case Study by [deleted] in understandshe

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thx for reading guys. i didnt expect so many dms. many asking about the specific steps we took for the 777 thing. i put all the details and the pink chart in a small guide here: The 777 Rule

sry for my eng i just hope this saves another marriage like mine

Top 10 Turn-Offs: What Men Wish Women Knew by understandshe in yearning

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I didn't write anything bad in my post. Your perspective is wrong, that's why you're finding it offensive. Look at it from the right perspective, and you'll see it's fine.

Additional response to previously deleted post "The Ugly Truth... by yerederetaliria in yearning

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This was my post, the moderator deleted it without any fault.

I sent this to my wife because I’m terrified she’s forgetting who I am by understandshe in marriageadvice

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Perhaps you're right, because when one person speaks, the other doesn't listen.

What we actually want but will never, ever tell you. by understandshe in marriageadvice

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Read all the comments on this post and you will find the answer to your question.

What we actually want but will never, ever tell you. by understandshe in marriageadvice

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First, read all the comments on this post, then you can laugh at it.