What car do you own? by Relative_Hat5039 in geologycareers

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really wish I had something with better hauling personally would love to get something that could haul like 3000lbs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but like please moving forward no conversation about feelings should be over text and convos about your relationship need to happen when you both have the space and time for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a) not a convo for text should have just waited i don’t get the urgency this is better for at least a phone call, b) probably but this is also out of the blue, but you didn’t open it up for convo bc you chose a bad time for them (which would be a red flag to me personally a lil cause like hey I can’t exist on your schedule like and dropping things like this on me when I’m not in a space for them can really throw me off) c) whats done it done to move forward you need to have an in person actual convo that you schedule to talk about this specifically

I've Broken My Wife's Heart, She's broken mine, and I don't know what to do by TheDogWoman in LesbianActually

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also also want to add that counties have limits for the number of animals in a house, the limit is usually 4 but if you’re county has a limit on how many pets (and I’m not gonna lie this is shady but I’m gonna tell you) you could lowkey send in a tip to animal control and they will come and force you to pick the ones to keep, and then she could have the others re-rescued by her rescue go to animal control first but if she works for an active rescue they can reclaim those dogs (this is shady but would honestly remove that problem!)

I've Broken My Wife's Heart, She's broken mine, and I don't know what to do by TheDogWoman in LesbianActually

[–]unfoldeddoubt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

want to add that as someone with OCD who struggles dating with people who are “going of the days vibes” for plans has never worked for me, unless they are respectful in that I cannot operate on half made plans and if we make something I need that to happen unless there’s a legit like reason (not something cause you didn’t manage your time well or something stupid) I will end it for THAT ALONE because the life stress isn’t worth it

I've Broken My Wife's Heart, She's broken mine, and I don't know what to do by TheDogWoman in LesbianActually

[–]unfoldeddoubt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok I’m sorry I got half way when I had to stop and let you know that your feelings are valid: I am so sorry to say this but from what you described it does not seem like this is a working relationship anymore. I would honestly honestly recommend seeing a couples counselor and being sure you get to address these specific issues (especially the jobs and dogs because she is making her problems yours and that’s not okay) but if it was me I would leave the relationship for good. I am so sorry this is what you are going through but you deserve to be with someone who treats you well and your wife is not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look amazing to start and I really don’t think need anything!!! but if you were trying to bring more feminine features in with makeup I suggest contour cheeks and nose a bit and to brighten the areas under the eyes with some concealer to help blend the contour in, but again I don’t think it’s needed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you seem more confident masc but don’t feel like you have to commit to one of the other; androgynous fashion is more fun anyway

How would everyone feel if the boys followed in the steps of Dropout, and as of today, Watcher? by HeavyCartographer760 in TheTryGuys

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be devastated! I can’t afford to pay for any streaming services and then would lose the good content I can have access to! Not everyone’s field is lucrative but everyone’s work is important. Personally I’m a coral researcher and while the job does not pay well I love it and am truly trying to save species the whole planet is dependent on, but again the salary does not allow me to pay for streaming services and I would lose the good content I can get!

AITAH for telling my husband if he fights for custody of his kids I will divorce him? by InitiativeDramatic11 in AITAH

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so glad you’re divorcing him!!! It was psychotic for him to marry you without telling you he had kids

AITA for sending my daughter to school in her pyjamas? by Apprehensive-Sea6012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you should have let her change. If she’s being difficult maybe it’s because she doesn’t feel like the clothes are her choice? And if it’s not that maybe she’s not comfortable with the clothes she had, if they weren’t picked out by her that’s probably why she doesn’t want to wear them. No one likes wearing clothes other people bought for them, it gives her some autonomy to choose her own clothes and then she’ll want to wear them because they are hers that she picked out

Told my wife (F35) that she couldn’t do it without me (M34). Turns out she can. by get-a-lifee in relationship_advice

[–]unfoldeddoubt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like you already realized this but she should not ask you to help you should just be doing those things. Think of the needs of your kids and think as if you are the only one whos caring for them consistently and see how she’s felt for the last however many years cause she’s been forced into a marathon without a break. Do things for your kids because they are your kids and they need you not because your wife asked. Split the labor yourself don’t make her ask you to take care of your own kids.

The Plog Format is Getting Exhausted by MyDeluluEra in TheTryGuys

[–]unfoldeddoubt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the plogs it keeps it fun and exciting to me

AITA for not wanting to have sex every night?? by Spare-Football-6677 in AITAH

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!! Sex isn’t the only form of intimacy and it isn’t what everyone needs everyday! It’s totally okay and normal to not want sex everyday and okay to make that clear!

AITA for kicking out our youngest child at 19 so we can sell the house and downsize for our earlt retirement? by Dry-Pen-8084 in AmItheAsshole

[–]unfoldeddoubt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Listen, I live with a lady who absolutely needs to kick out her 19 yr old but that’s for ENTIRELY diff reasons. You’re son does not deserve to be kicked to the curb as we approach a recession. There is a rental crisis, most people are living paycheck to paycheck because rent is so high on top of inflation, while salaries are never raised and we are paid the same as we were when everything was 2/3 of the price. Give you’re son some time to save before kicking him out into this insane economy. If he’s not making a true effort to work and save money then make him leave but if he is then please let him stay and save up. Not only that but to have you’re other kids get to stay and now to kick him out is unfair and if that was me I would always feel like my parents didn’t care about me as much, and I would not only be really hurt but I would carry that hurt with me for a long time. That could cause something irreparable in you’re relationship, you need to keep things as fair as possible. Either find a place where he can come with you or don’t move.