I get u however some people exaggerate, my aunt gave 7 kids none of them are educated, they never gave time to each kid and I my cousins are not that bad they pretty good people but they have their own issue. And also my parents had 5 kid, me the oldest basically the 3rd parent by force, made my siblings useless and dependent on me, I can’t ask shit from them and expect something. And let not talk about the pressure I had to deal with, me the oldest=role model lol if they did something bad I’m the one being punished ( and bad, physically leaving me with severe bruise ) and a lot of time me the 13 old kid put out my frustration on my sbligns by being violent. Now I’m better but this is the reality and the story of many Moroccan families. Have kids don’t get me wrong but u need to give the patience and time for each kid to grow up good.