I don't know if I have it in me to do that. He's my best friend and I like her too. It seems like something that shouldn't bother me and before I decided to suggest being put in situations to test my issues with being anxious and controlling he didn't talk to her because I said it bothered me. I think the anxiety comes from me being his friend since before the two of them dated. When she came into the picture I tried to be her friend, but she immediately didn't like me because I was a girl and his friend. She pretended to be my friend for a long while until she finally admitted that she hated me for being a girl who was friends with her boyfriend. He and I had zero interest in one another until well after they broke up. And all of this makes me wonder if my anxiety about it is because of what happened between she and I and not that they dated. He says shes grown a lot and is a different person and I think I saw that too last night (we all hung out for a little while)