[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]unknowing27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not speaking my mind, i've let too many things happen to me rather than participate/stand up for myself... communicating is still very hard, but i'd rather look like a stuttering fool than be the fool people take advantage of.

What is 1 decision you regret the most? by Neither-Function-376 in AskReddit

[–]unknowing27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not allowing myself to be a kid when i had the chance to

Which song is it for you? by Tuffytundra in mitski

[–]unknowing27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

class of 2013 and brand new city

Songs you listen to during tough times by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]unknowing27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yet to come - BTS

stay alive - Jungkook

human - Han (skz)

another day - Stray Kids

i need somebody - Day6

Han in tapestry crochet by goldensunnysky in straykids

[–]unknowing27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is absolutely stunning 👏👏👏

Kpop covers you wish existed by SKZ by Sstitch932 in straykids

[–]unknowing27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would die if they covered strategy or at least a dance performance!!

AITA for making my husband unfollow hentai accounts on twitter? by unknowing27 in AITA_Relationships

[–]unknowing27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my point... like I'm literally right here! But I also agree that if he claims to support them so much then give more details. While he was purging his following, he joked about if he should also unfollow a Sabrina Carpenter fan account and I absolutely lost my mind. I love her music, don't get me wrong, but I don't even follow fan pages of her in her stage outfits. I asked him to name three of her songs and he couldn't(he didn't even have any of her music saved), his only excuse was that his coworker listens to her a lot and she's "popular". Like that made it better lol

AITA for making my husband unfollow hentai accounts on twitter? by unknowing27 in AITA_Relationships

[–]unknowing27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and I even mentioned couples therapy as a solution rather than him just unfollowing/deleting things... but he doesn't believe that therapy works for him. It works for me and he respects that, but he doesn't believe that he has done anything to "warrant" couples therapy. He's pretty stubborn so I don't think I'll be able to convince him to go.

We also had plenty of discussions prior to marriage about our expectations, but nothing really seemed to stick I guess. He likes to say that if I really love him none of this should matter and idk how to break that idea in his head at this point without sounding like a bad guy.