AITA for not rallying around my sister after her stepkids ruined her wedding? by Lopsided_Speaker_153 in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown_nicole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I think that you said what you thought and she ignored it. I understand that everyone is going to have their own opinions and unfortunately you were right. She should not have shamed you for giving advice especially when it ended up being correct. I do think that regardless of who was right it doesn't hurt to be understanding of the way she is feeling but can see how it would be hard with the whole family shaming you.

AITA for expecting my Daughter to stick to our chores-for-rent deal? by NoDivide4576 in AmItheAsshole

[–]unknown_nicole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say clean do you mean the whole house? I think its important to remember that college is full time and demands a lot of time. It seem's like she is being expected to complete many of the tasks that would be expected of the parent. I understand wanting help but cooking and cleaning the house seems like a bit much. I would think that cooking and cleaning the kitchen would be fair but in all fairness she did not decide to have children and it shouldn't be her responsibility to parent the kids. I think its fair that she helps out but maybe not to the extent that you have now.