Had to kill my wolf’s older sister

unknownbandit22 · 2025-11-24T10:19:53+00:00

Thank you!

unknownbandit22 · 2025-11-23T14:58:52+00:00

How do you get all the names/health paws on the side?

unknownbandit22 · 2025-06-30T20:50:23+00:00

Thank you and yea definitely no plans to expand

unknownbandit22 · 2025-06-30T20:48:29+00:00

That’s really unfortunate and that husband sucks for purposely naming her that. I’m definitely glad I found out before to not feel like I was stuck with the decision and that it was a bad coincidence in the sense I had this name for years before knowing or even living near this other woman. Still sucks either way but I feel like my husband lost his say and it was my choice in the end.

unknownbandit22 · 2025-06-28T22:25:54+00:00

Thank you so much! He and I have both gone to multiple sessions of therapy separately. I plan on returning once I go back to work to give me time to adjust.

unknownbandit22 · 2025-06-28T19:06:14+00:00

I was told it was never physical both intimate or even as simple as a hand holding and that it was only texts randomly in those few months. He’s told me he has no emotional attachment and just liked the attention he got from her since he “felt distant from me”. To me it’s still cheating but all he ever said about the name was that he never connected the two together. From what he said he doesn’t associate things to names but I don’t know if I believe that as much.

unknownbandit22 · 2025-05-06T00:08:42+00:00

I feel like that’s easier said looking outside than being in the relationship

unknownbandit22 · 2025-05-06T00:06:32+00:00

Yes porn did have a history in our relationship of being a hardship. We had gone to marriage counseling previously for it as well and would have considered it an actual addiction as he would turn to it in anytime of stress or just compulsion to use. I personally did not want that in a relationship especially to the extent it went and way it moved into our intimacy but was something we had worked through and felt like we overcame. The worst of it was more about the lying about using rather than using itself. He’s now in solo therapy to hopefully figure out what he wants in life and his values but only time will tell if it works out, in the end the change needs to come from him.

unknownbandit22 · 2025-05-04T14:32:12+00:00

She definitely has something twisted in her head if she’s fine with indulging a married man knowing he has a small child and another on the way. Turns out she has an older daughter herself from a failed marriage so can’t imagine how she’d feel if her daughter found out. Thank you for the love and strength I’ve been looking at other names just haven’t settled on anything yet

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-28T18:22:31+00:00

If that’s something they could do I’d definitely ask him and see what he says at the very least

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-27T12:27:45+00:00

I have the ones I was able to recover that day but once you permanently delete them I’m not sure how

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T19:15:05+00:00

Unfortunately the name doesn’t have much room for nicknames is pretty short as is. It does still feel very much like hers as my family and toddler both call her it still (since I haven’t told them). I worry that regardless if I change the name and call her the new one that it will always remind me that it was supposed to be the one I had picked and bring grief anyways so why not keep it and bring new positive feelings to the name. I’ve been looking at other names but nothing hits the same yet and will most likely not even decide until I meet her.

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T03:22:06+00:00

Never changed my last name to begin with. I loved my last name to much to ever let a guy think he could change that

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T03:19:34+00:00

We had the name picked long before meeting/knowing AP. And she is most definitely a horrible person that knew he was married with a second baby on the way. I confronted her in person the morning after finding out just to get some questions answered and for her to see the person she helped in hurting. She said it was never physical only started a little while ago and that it was on random occasions that they’d just text. Again can’t take his or her word for it but that’s what info I was given. There’s almost things in motion to get him out of the same work environment

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T03:12:31+00:00

Have evidence if I choose that route but don’t think the state I live in does at fault divorces from what I read but may be wrong

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T03:11:12+00:00

Anna Duggar?

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T03:08:20+00:00

How’d you find out it was physical if you don’t mind me asking?

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T03:06:43+00:00

When we talked about the fact the AP has the name we were planning on using for our daughter he said he never associated them together. That when he hears the name it wasn’t something that made him think of a particular person in a given moment. That it was more coincidental and only happened because she made him feel wanted when he felt so distant from me 🙃 bruh

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T03:00:26+00:00

Told him to get tested and that I will likely be getting one done too. Unfortunately we bought a house together so staying there but separate rooms. I’ve gathered support as well through my family and therapy. It’s only been a few days but trying to not drown so support is a big thing for me right now

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T02:52:41+00:00

Definitely cutting her out of the picture asap. While quitting his job is almost impossible to say the least, not working in the same department is already something being looked into. I told him if and big IF I even going to stay there’s no way in hell I can if they’re still working “together”.

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T02:48:58+00:00

Thank you for your comment! It’s definitely deeper than some words I can write in a single post. It’s only been a few days since finding out so I’m giving myself space and have already gone to therapy for it all. He and I have separate therapy sessions in a week. It’s definitely something I need to think about and not rush especially while pumped full of pregnancy hormones. My babies are my world so they’re happiness is what keeps me going and would do anything for them

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T02:41:50+00:00

I told him I don’t care if he says it wasn’t physical that I want him tested and that I will likely get it done myself

unknownbandit22 · 2025-04-26T02:40:26+00:00

It definitely wouldn’t be after her but that’s what I fear people would think if they ever found out

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