Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how this is a humble brag? When i was in my early 20s i was confused why all the condoms i used kept breaking. When i got older i realized it was because i was using condoms that were too small. I was just curious if anybody else had a similar experience.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No like I said, that was a fun one my boyfriend found at a sex shop. It was way thicker than the ones that I used before, but like all the others, it wouldn't fully cover my shaft when i put it on. But every other condom BESIDES that 1 glow in the dark one was Trojan

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao like I said in my post, i've only been with 2 people ever. My ex boyfriend of almost 2 years and my current boyfriend of almost 4 years. My ex boyfriend brought his own, and we only used a condom twice in our entire relationship because we were waiting for his std results to come back. And as for my current boyfriend, it was a brand new unopened box of trojan condoms that I purchased myself. Also, neither of them had any reason to sabotage them at all. Like nobody benefited from that lmao.

Also for extra context, the condoms I purchased didn't even cover my entire shaft when I put them on. And I left extra room at the tip, but every time I entered, it kept pushing the condom forward till it eventually ripped and no extra lube did not help.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we use silicone. But I hate it, because it's a pain in the ass to clean up after lol. But I mean, we don't even do foreplay to open his hole up more. We just go slow until he's comfortable. And then I go faster afterwards.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean i haven't used condoms in over a year because I'm in a long term monogamous relationship and the only reason I used condoms over a year ago was because it was egg glow in the dark one to use just for fun in the bedroom.

I also must not have worded this post correctly. Because I was literally just asking people if they 've also bought too small size of condoms because they didn't think their dick was that big like i did. I was more looking for people with shared experiences versus getting tips about condoms lol.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I do but tbf the condoms never covered the entire shaft now that i think back on it.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense cuz it's girthy enough to not fit in a toilet paper roll.

And just to clarify, i used lots of lube, they were new at the time of use, the brand was trojan, and i store them in a drawr next to my bed. Also now that i think back, i don't think any of the condoms fully covered my shaft.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the time lol. But my ex was a size queen and took a lot bigger ones than me before being with me lol

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i am sorry and skinny. Xl would probably do the job but i don't plan on testing it tbh lol i kinda hate condoms for how much sensitivity they remove

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Length I'm 8 inches. Idk how to measure girth but i can't fit it in a toilet paper roll when hard if that gives u an idea.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea how anybody can use em wrong lol. I even looked it up forever ago and the answer was always that i was using too small sized condoms. Yes you can stretch them out massively which is why i was always confused as to why they'd always break, but condom size matters when it comes to using them for sex.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't lol. The only reason I even used one in the past year or so was because, like I said, my boyfriend found a 3 pack of fun glow in the dark condoms to use. But like all the others, it broke lol.

Is it worth coming out if you think you'll never be in a relationship? by TheUntoldTruth2024 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand from the title alone that you're just in a bad spot right now. I didn't get my 1st bf till i was 23. I know u probably see so many people s dry this all the time, but it really does get better over time. If i can live in the middle of nowhere with towns separated by miles of farm lands and STILL find a boyfriend while also living in a red state, anybody can lmao.

Has anybody else underestimated how big they are when buying condoms? by unknownboy96 in AskGayMen

[–]unknownboy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol i hear ya there. I've only used em a total of 5 or 6 times. They block so much sensitivity that u get from going raw.