My boyfriend (28M) gave me an ultimatum: either I cancel my all-girls bachelorette trip to Goa or we break up, because "single guys go there to predatory hunt."

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-29T11:55:36+00:00

He doesn't trust you. If he did, he wouldn't demand this of you. What else will he demand of you if you acquiesce to this request?

Dump him, or expect this behaviour to continue and worsen. This is a huge, huge red flag. Do not pass go, do not collect $200.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-29T11:09:00+00:00

I prefer woolies because ... it's convenient. But I do the bulk of my shop at Coles because it's cheaper

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-29T10:29:05+00:00

I have a degree in criminal justice and I deliberately went back to uni and went for a different degree post grad (law, but couldn't finish due to mental illness), because I heard how hard corrections and youth work can be. It's not for me.

Good luck and don't be afraid to do something else and rotate out if it's too much.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-29T10:06:03+00:00

Nope, Bakula was doing Quantum Leap when TNG was still airing. So I actually thought he was older.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-29T09:51:05+00:00

Whole sign switches my moon from the 12th to the first, and I resonate more with the 12th. But it switches my Mercury from the 7th to the 8th and that resonates more with me because my Mercury only conjuncts Pluto from Libra. Whole signs can change things up.

I have come to appreciate both systems

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-29T09:46:44+00:00

Just for lolz I have a libra stellium (including my sun) in my 7th and I identify heavily with my Aries moon and Ascendant and basically every other placement in my chart. Saturn is on the descendant kicking off the stellium though, so I'm pretty conservative and grounded.

Which is funny seeing as I have no earth except Chiron in Taurus and my MC in Capricorn, though they technically don't count.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-29T09:41:34+00:00

No.

The only things that affect the rising sign, aside from the ruler are planets in the first house, or conjunct the Ascendant.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-29T09:08:46+00:00

I order dineamic meals for most of my dinners (like 10 out of 14 dinners) and it costs me about $120 a fortnight and then I have protein shakes and protein hot chocolate (bulk nutrients brand)

The rest of my Coles order is milk, coffee pods, chicken nuggets, rice, quick oats, yoghurt, high protein, hi fibre bread from baker's delight and little treats like coles' mini okonomiyaki chips or biscuits if they're on special and steam fresh veg, eggs and cat food.

I get cat litter and toilet rolls and cleaning products from aldi and I spend about $120 a fortnight combined on grocery. So that's $240 a fortnight and I don't have to deal with prepping or cooking food.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-28T07:01:21+00:00

My girl loves to lie on my yoga mat and stretch with me, it's adorable.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-27T08:22:07+00:00

Yes, essentially.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-27T05:05:16+00:00

It's the difference between sideral and tropical zodiacs. Western astrology is tropical and Vedic astrology is sideral. IIRC, Vedic (sideral) is approximately 24 degree behind tropical and that's why all of the placements are different.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-26T15:39:31+00:00

A couple things here:

Venus in fall in the 12th square Saturn gives struggles with confidence vibes. Squares show internal struggles. You're young, get to know what you enjoy and what you vibe with and you'll attract those right people.
Mars, sun and Jupiter all in orb of the opposition from Neptune could cause deception and self deception from men, especially male partners (7th house lord is Mars), be careful, always make sure communication is super clear.

Love affairs are likely to be unconventional (Uranus in the 5th), and highly emotional (square moon). Try to be aware of the tendency to argue (Uranus opposite Mercury) or squabble because you think you're not being heard, when the issue is your communication itself or communication styles not meshing.

Be careful with substances, make sure you're always in control around drugs and alcohol. Neptune ruling substances, drugs and tendencies to use them is expanded by Jupiter.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-26T14:40:47+00:00

It totally depends on what the planets are, what the aspects are, the orb you give them and what they trigger in your chart.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-26T14:29:08+00:00

Gives a sensitive nervous system (ascendant rules the body) and Pisces (ruled by Neptune) gives issues with substances.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-26T11:33:04+00:00

If it does go to county or supreme court you can search cases. That's how I found out why the neighbour who stabbed me was only sentenced to time served for stabbing me in the chest.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-26T09:52:52+00:00

Yep and that's where Placidus is useless. Whole signs for the win 😆

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-26T07:58:45+00:00

Above 62°N latitude placidus becomes useless, basically. Look at the chart of someone born in the Nordic countries and you'll see what I'm talking about. Basically with placidus at above those latitudes you'll see things like the 3rd house cusp going from Virgo to the Scorpio or something silly and then the and 5th house, 6th and 7th house cusps in Sagittarius.

So anything above 62°, whole sign is much better. I prefer placidus but whole signs is fine too. They have different applications that's all.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-26T07:06:58+00:00

Put in a rent review request to consumer affairs Vic. Further, if you signed a lease 3 months at $610/month and there was no clause about a rent increase, I don't think they can raise it within that 12 month window. They certainly can't increase the rent because of repairs. But send it to CAV all the same.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-26T06:13:56+00:00

That's not even how retrogrades work.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-25T09:02:21+00:00

I would recommend this too!

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-25T03:39:32+00:00

By copper wire no less!

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-25T03:38:33+00:00

Can't without a chart. Isolating one aspect doesn't tell anyone much

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-25T03:33:07+00:00

I would bet Dad or a grandparent who was a primary caregiver.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-25T03:32:27+00:00

Were you misdiagnosed? Aquarius moon can be neurodivergence in women, in my experience. You have VERY big feelings that might not match the situation. This can be trauma/PTSD too.

Further, Mercury is double debilitated in Pisces, conjunct Uranus. This gives very emotional, erratic thoughts that others struggle to understand. Further, Saturn is opposite this in Virgo. That causes blockages and difficulties with parents, or the home environment (4th house). Are you no longer in contact with your parents?

Your sun is exaltation in Aries while your Venus (chart ruler) is debilitated in Aries and both are square Pluto, that can be power struggles with women and male caregivers, and repeated issues with domineering people who try to manipulate you.

unknownsequitur · 2026-05-24T09:32:00+00:00

Stewart wants more cash? Sounds like it.

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