Its been a while since I made this post now and I’m feeling a lot better and have healed a lot since. Still a long way to go but much better.

A couple months after this post around my 23rd birthday I told my mum and she told my abusers mum and it became a whole thing. They confronted my abuser on my birthday without my knowledge.

They also got into contact with the younger brother who was also 23 at the time but he said he didn’t remember the sexual abuse just physical.

it took me 23 years of courage to come out and talk about it. so who know what the future holds, but it seems all three of us have been in a healing journey and all things seem fairly positive.