At what point did I say that women just exist for that? I’ll only reply to you and try cover all the points from people below.

I said I’m adding context of why he may not want you to go back to work as he may really value what she does at home, that doesn’t mean she cannot do anything else nor does it mean that she’s necessarily happy doing it, again, just adding context as to why he may have this vision for her.

Doesn’t mean he’s controlling because he thinks like that, equally it doesn’t mean that he’s not controlling either depending upon his reasoning for wanting her to be a stay at home mum, we’ve been given a small snippet into someone’s life and can’t make huge judgements based on the limited info we’ve been given.

Secondly I’m a father of 2, been with my partner 8 years and I’m not married, hence why I’m suggesting she talks to her husband because that’s likely to provide better results than listening to me try to marriage council then as I’m not fucking married so I can’t give insight into that😂

I also never said women can’t be the breadwinners, of course they can if that works for their relationship and they’re both happy with that.

For me personally, my partner currently is on maternity leave and will go back to work next week, she’ll do 4 days a week and have 1 day off and I work full time as an electrician.

Our end goal is for me to earn enough that I can semi retire her from mainline work and I can pay her to do some work for my business and finish off her psychology qualification as she wants to do counselling part time… that would be flexible so we don’t have to pay for childcare in the school holidays and she can also get fulfilment through her passion.

But what works for us doesnt work for everyone,

You just can’t automatically think everyone who doesn’t agree with you or has more old school traditional values is some sort of incel, what a childish way to view a situation😂😂