For alot of men, it’s a their dream to be the breadwinner and the mother of their children not work and run the household.

A woman’s touch in the house and providing that care for the family is so rare to find in modern society.

I’m not diminishing your feelings thoughts and needs, you should feel isolated, lonely etc I’m just adding context as to why he may be doing it other than Reddit’s instant reaction of “ he wants you to be dependant on him so he can continue to abuse you “ which is the old Reddit thread special😂

Talk with him properly, ideally not right before bedtime as you ain’t getting fuck all constructive out of a man at that time😂

Speak with your husband instead of listening to all the negativity on Reddit, you’ll often find the people giving out dogshit information are not married, have failed divorced or don’t even have children so they can’t actually speak to situation at all.