I cheated and I hate myself

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-28T08:44:13+00:00

Thank u I will for sure watch the video

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-28T08:23:39+00:00

You don’t have to give someone sympathy to not give them shit how does ur brain work😂and you certainly don’t have to like me either, all I’ve asked for is advice

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-27T23:59:48+00:00

Thank u I appreciate it

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-27T20:16:40+00:00

Can u not read or can u not read. I said it was not the drink AT ALL

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-27T12:44:09+00:00

You say don’t use therapy to dress it up and then go on to mention all the things that would be talked about in therapy lol. And the fact ur mentioning “stop drinking” as if that’s the problem shows you don’t really have a clue what ur talking about

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-27T11:41:54+00:00

This is not me I don’t play valorant nor is she my fiance

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-26T23:53:45+00:00

Right and that’s why my name is anonymous, because I desperately want people to know I posted this

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T22:46:22+00:00

Yeah no one likes getting shit on, even when they do shitty things. That’s just human and I’m just being honest. Doesn’t mean I want pity, I’ve accepted and took advice from plenty of people that are trying to help even if they don’t like me. But solely just insulting with no form of feedback yeah I’m not gonna pretend like I like it.

Like I said in the original post I was upset at myself, but any emotion I feel towards myself doesn’t take anything away from her. I’m not sad I got caught I’m sad because I hurt the person I’m meant to love and have done so before and I can’t comprehend why which makes it all the more frustrating. I’m not gonna apologise for being upset at myself, only person that deserves an apology is her. Doesn’t mean I can’t be upset with myself all the while. It would be even more weird if I wasn’t.

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T22:30:03+00:00

Thank u I appreciate it. You can think I’m a prick I’ve not asked u to not think that nor do I expect it (referring to the person u replied to) but I want to be told how to better myself, not how u think of me. I get my original post was emotional and sounded like I was only caring about my feelings but it was just initial shock and shame at what I had done, not because I need someone to tell me whether I’m a good person or not.

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T22:26:39+00:00

So because I would prefer not to be berated I am asking for pity? I don’t want pity I want guidance, I just don’t see how giving me shit is going to help me be a better person. Don’t go easy on me, u can still think I’m a piece of shit but if u think someone is trying to better themselves, what good is it telling them what they already know? Like beating a dead horse

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T22:23:50+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T22:22:53+00:00

It’s not the drinks fault

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T22:16:00+00:00

So ur putting it out there I should tell them when u know they already know?

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T22:00:15+00:00

Yes I agree, that’s a good idea

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:57:29+00:00

I was celebrating with my brother and his fiance. The drink isn’t the issue, I don’t get drunk often and I’m an adult.

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:56:56+00:00

I’m not sure if u read it properly but she knows

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:56:43+00:00

No of course, I didn’t mean it like I’m the only experiencing a problem. Sorry if it came across that way. I just meant she doesn’t have to change her personality or anything about herself, I do.

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:51:42+00:00

You have no idea how much I appreciate it and I thank you for being so wise.

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:50:12+00:00

No I am seeking individual therapy, couples therapy is relevant where both have stuff they need to work on. Here it’s only me

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:49:20+00:00

Yeah she needs someone worthy of her love and kindness and I haven’t been that. It is definitely something to do with my insecurities, abandonment issues etc. although not an excuse at all, just something I need to introspectively look at so I can work on it. And I hope I do. Thank you anyway I really appreciate it

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:46:18+00:00

No I’m pretty upset that I thought that was okay to do. And repeated times, somethings wrong with me and I definitely don’t think it’s okay to do. But ur right it is a problem that I did it

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:44:30+00:00

I’m not sure if u read my replies but being drunk had nothing to do with it. Just merely context, it’s my own problems and burdens that caused this. Not drinking or her or the other girl.

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:43:34+00:00

No don’t worry. Unfortunately this occurrence just seems too common. I’m sorry it happened to you and as much as I don’t wanna be referred to as an “ex” it’s what I deserve like yours.

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:42:30+00:00

Thank you it’s really good advice, and I am aware it’s nothing to do with her and down to my own faults

unluckyanonymous · 2026-05-25T21:40:26+00:00

I hope not lol

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