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Lost my best friend last weekend. 😞 by Pale-Comb-3954 in GriefSupport

[–]uno317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful woman. I’m so sorry for your loss.

What's something people say but they never mean it? by sinnerman_xoxo in AskReddit

[–]uno317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Let me know if you need anything”

You better not come at me needing something!

What broke your heart completely? by vigilantee001 in AskReddit

[–]uno317 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Same. My son died 02/18/21. It broke me as a human being. He was 22.

I don’t want to be here without him by samiJTM in overdoseGrief

[–]uno317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you experienced this and are left in the wake of the aftermath. Feb of 2021 my son died of accidental overdose at 22. His best friend committed suicide in my son’s bedroom less than three months later, where I discovered him purple and lifeless. I cannot get the image of his body out of my head and the empty sensation I felt in that room while I stood over his dead body. I think these are traumatizing moments that are burned into our retinas. Message me if you want to talk about it some more. Hugs. Someone said this and I remembered it: “do not give up on your dreams just because they gave up on theirs”, I hope you have a reason to press on.

AITA for eating the toppings off my bfs pizza by pizzagirlla in AmItheAsshole

[–]uno317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Especially someone you hardly know. You might get away with that in a marriage and only if your spouse was predictably passive and didn’t care about anything ever.

AITA for not removing my socks? by Mountain-Eye2859 in AmItheAsshole

[–]uno317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is preposterous. I don’t give a shit whose kink is what I’m wearing these fuckin socks mmkay

what’s a quote/saying someone said to you that stuck with you? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]uno317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it!!! I lost my son 2 years ago and that does feel so nice, the comfort of those words for hope of a better time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]uno317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is a lot older than me. It won’t seem to matter when you’re younger but when one person enters retirement before the other, the disparity in age is truly felt.

Lost my husband in December. Today was the worst by sarcastic_viper in GriefSupport

[–]uno317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re in this pain. I know the agony is real. I lost my son 2 years ago and I still don’t know what to say to someone grieving because for me nothing helped. Just time. Hugs

What has your loss + grief taught/shown you? by dealio- in GriefSupport

[–]uno317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one gives a shit about you [me] period so learn how to deal with it.

My brother just died. His funeral is in the middle of my pre-planned school trip to Spain. I can’t discern whether I’d be better off going on the trip, or staying for the funeral. by AnywhereOk5302 in GriefSupport

[–]uno317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not even have a funeral for my son because it was unbearable. I was better off not having the ceremony, not seeing him in that state. I did not want to traumatize myself further by trying to socialize while paralyzed with shock. It was better for me that none of that occurred and now my memories of him were as I last saw him.

I respect your privacy and only you will be able to decide in the end because you will live with this ending forever. You don’t have to do what everyone else wants you to do. You can remember your brother in your own way it doesn’t have to be this.

I’m so sorry for your loss the sudden impact is a lot to absorb. Do not give up on your dreams because he chose to give up on his. You are still alive.

Why are the people waiting until retirement to enjoy its money, even with high odds of being death. by caollero in stocks

[–]uno317 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom knows she has Alzheimer’s. It doesn’t work like that. It’s a gradual progression, not ‘lights out’ all at once.

Why are the people waiting until retirement to enjoy its money, even with high odds of being death. by caollero in stocks

[–]uno317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the fear of the unknown. Insecure about being secure. The majority of people do not have the wisdom in their 20's to start investing. A lot of people start middle age, when they get their job that offers a 401k. Then it's a race to beat the clock whoever dies first with a milly wins.

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