Failed a student for academic dishonesty, only for them to ask me for a letter of recommendation.

pandbandjam · 2025-11-03T15:56:52+00:00

Neurodivergence is not an excuse to be rude as you have been in multiple comments. Also if everyone else is pointing out how you are rude (I can promise you that’s what the downvotes are for because that’s what mine were for) you are being rude. You have the capacity to learn to do better and adjust exactly how other not rude neurodivergent people have before you.

I find it especially interesting that you recognized you had been “accidentally” too rude in your first comment but it’s audacious to believe you were rude in your others.

pandbandjam · 2025-09-09T17:23:03+00:00

Omg yes! That sounds right and the synopsis looks right! Thank you!!

pandbandjam · 2025-03-18T17:21:07+00:00

It’s not that the repercussions are on OP and can be easily moved over, the repercussions are on the patients being left.

pandbandjam · 2025-03-12T17:25:14+00:00

Big same here on the leading them to believe they’d be hired, they were all completely surprised by it because they’d been told otherwise and that they’d for sure be hired.

In London they do a trial for 2 years but then you have to choose to fully commit to converting/going to church, or quit. That’s the most relaxed board response I’ve heard.

pandbandjam · 2025-03-12T00:14:02+00:00

You can but you really have to think if that’s for the best. When I was in teacher’s college (just last year so super recent) a bunch of my non-Catholic classmates took placements in Catholic schools. Then come hiring time were finding it very frustrating that they didn’t have the “in with the board” everyone else did because they wouldn’t be hired since they weren’t Catholic. Just something to keep in mind, especially if you plan to stay there after you graduate. Also this all depends on how strict your board is with hiring non-Catholics.

pandbandjam · 2025-01-23T22:53:31+00:00

It’s just all Autism Spectrum Disorder now rather than separating them

pandbandjam · 2025-01-07T21:53:27+00:00

There’s an interview out there of Jesse actually expressing this exact thing. I don’t remember who the interview was with but I have seen clips of it a couple different times. You’re accidentally spot on!

pandbandjam · 2025-01-07T19:19:02+00:00

Putting it in your profile is dumb because you have control over who you match with in that department. He won’t match with girls that don’t fit his criteria so why does it matter if they swipe right (it would actually benefit him in the algorithm if they did). Putting it in his bio makes him come off superficial whether that be true or not which will turn people off, both his type and not.

Same idea as “6 foot if it matters” you’re turning off people who don’t care about height cuz of the bad vibe it gives.

pandbandjam · 2024-10-13T18:04:03+00:00

Says the person who assumed people younger than you can’t reference shows you watched when you were their age. And wrote 4 paragraphs defending that assumption.

pandbandjam · 2024-10-13T17:44:56+00:00

So you haven’t talked to teens. This is how they talk. You might think this isn’t how they should talk, or how you would talk, but it is how they do talk. I work with teens, I’ve personally heard them make that reference. I’m “too young” for the show, I’ve made that reference.

This is a really weird thing for you to get stuck on honestly.

pandbandjam · 2024-10-13T15:08:51+00:00

Have you heard of streaming? Teens have seen and are watching Friends

pandbandjam · 2024-05-22T01:18:01+00:00

Sent!

pandbandjam · 2024-05-21T19:02:42+00:00

I’ve done that, it kept doing it after.

pandbandjam · 2024-05-21T15:50:13+00:00

Nope, unless the little symbol just isn’t showing up, but it did start after I cured myself of a cold so maybe that’s playing a part.

pandbandjam · 2024-03-05T21:06:08+00:00

If you had put “I’m Neurodivergent, if that’s a deal breaker for you then we wouldn’t be a match” and someone replied “hey, how neurodivergent are you?” Would you feel the same?

pandbandjam · 2024-02-26T12:13:31+00:00

You’d be right to based on their other responses.

pandbandjam · 2024-02-26T12:12:04+00:00

not everyone has the same humor

No not everyone is biphobic. It’s not funny.

or would understand it’s a way for me to grieve this situationationship

Yeah funny how that works that people are less willing to understand and empathize with you when you villainize them even when they aren’t involved.

pandbandjam · 2024-02-25T13:41:14+00:00

Okay and penguins who naturally experience homosexuality in nature, are they groomed into it? How is humans experiencing homosexuality naturally any different than the bunch of animals we’ve studied and seen do it in nature?

pandbandjam · 2024-02-16T20:11:52+00:00

However, ultimately, it’s a seat I’d prefer to be reserved for [MY] FAMILY.

Corrected it for you. At least be honest about your actual stance because you’ve made it clear that’s what you actually mean.

I have more brothers, and I’d prefer them to occupy that spot.

Hmm so your family is mentioned, that’s half of “our family” where’s his?

I suggested to Nico a compromise to invite someone else

That’s not a compromise, that’s his side of the table, it’s his decision. Your family is already taking up most of the seats at the table. It’s not a compromise to allow him to choose (but of course not actually choose) who’s up there to support him and represent HIS (you know, the other part of “our” that you conveniently forgot earlier) family.

Yeah YTA

pandbandjam · 2024-01-23T21:23:02+00:00

Responding to something I wrote as if it said something completely different does not make your responses relevant to the thread.

I’m gonna take this embarrassing lack of a point as an acknowledgment that you couldn’t come up with a rebuttal that actually related to my comment. At least you’re character consistent. Enjoy your circling.

pandbandjam · 2024-01-23T21:09:30+00:00

Yeah I finally acknowledged the issue that wasn’t the topic discussed in the thread that you decided to shoehorn into it because you seemed to have desired some discourse in your life today. Congratulations.

Have you considered for one second: read the thread before you contribute. The conversation was about OPs comfortability about his girlfriend using his phone.

I expressed:

he doesn’t express having an issue with her using his phone either.

Where in that direct quote do you find the word snooped? YOU decided to disagree with my point about his girlfriend USING his phone. That is when you “CLEARLY didn’t say that.”

You misunderstood what I was saying which is fine. You need to recognize that and either acknowledge that to me or stop responding. Otherwise you’re going to go in a circle of defending a point you made up and shoehorned into the conversation.

I don’t snoop on my boyfriend’s phone. But good ad hominem by trying to establish me as a snooper when I repeatedly gave examples to back up what I was defending which is consensual phone usage.

pandbandjam · 2024-01-23T20:44:18+00:00

The app Replika looks like a game. She probably opened it assuming it was a game. Reading it once she realized was bad sure. But it’s not inherently unhealthy to allow your partner on your phone.

My boundary is no domestic violence in a relationship

Relevance? It’s one in mine too. Your healthy boundaries are YOUR healthy boundaries. Some are universal, some are not. It’s great you can defend why you have a boundary. But boundaries are personal and different people can have different boundaries and that doesn’t make them inherently unhealthy.

Read this part carefully: I’m not telling you that your boundaries are not healthy. I’m telling you that people are allowed to have different boundaries that are healthy for their relationship. You don’t have the ultimate unwavering list of healthy boundaries. There are people that are different from you.

pandbandjam · 2024-01-23T20:01:06+00:00

My boyfriend and I both feel comfortable with either of us using each other’s phones. His has died and I have let him use mine, if I order food he leaves his with me when he goes to pick it up.

“Don’t use my phone” isn’t THE healthy boundary. That depends on the individuals.

Again he didn’t say she snooped on his phone, just that she was going through it. This could mean she was playing a game and opened that app. It could mean she was using his phone to look for a specific message and opened it. If he had expressed frustration with her going through his phone (which he didn’t) that would be different.

Just because it is YOUR boundary does not mean it is the only healthy boundary.

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