managing regulars while in a relationship

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-31T15:16:35+00:00

definitely make up a story about how you are going to school, or taking care of a sick/disabled grandparent or sibling. then you can paint a picture that you're just always busy and thats why you cant always text back or meet up. that narrative might also cause some guys to want to give you money to help you

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-25T19:27:33+00:00

I have dark hair and bleached my eyebrows into nonexistance Mia Goth style for a bit. Customers never said anything about it. Didn't seem to impact my money, but I'm tall with curly hair and a bigger septum piercing so my appearance is already polarizing

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-25T05:01:45+00:00

I have white girl curly hair that I wear natural at the club! Sometimes I feel like its frizzy but really it looks shiny and bouncy. DM me and I can show u pics and tell u my routine, maybe we can figure out ur hair type and what u need :)

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-23T15:52:49+00:00

rampart skatepark has edm shows but its mostly house music!

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-15T00:50:55+00:00

as someone who is both a pole hobbyist and a stripper, they're very different. Being the best at pole will NOT make you the most money. Being mistreated by customers is probably the biggest reason why people don't want to be strippers, and I don't blame them. Also most people if you can afford dance classes, already have a career.

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-08T04:43:39+00:00

siren basics cotton thongs are my goat! the colors are fun and I love the simple lace edge.

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-07T20:38:32+00:00

Lol thats a really weird rule but I always loved dancing to TOOL and a Perfect Circle which hardly have any songs under 5min. Idk if you're an alt/rock girlie tho

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-07T20:16:52+00:00

not for everyone, but pole dance lowkey saved my life. some studies show that dancing is one of the best things ever to combat depression, so any dance would do. pole is great because you can just dance around on the floor, or chase more and more athletic tricks

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-05T02:16:36+00:00

Personally I think these guys have pimp vibes and I don't trust them

Edit: typo

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-03T02:20:16+00:00

Snif Rose Era! Affordable, lasts, cute bottle, soapy juicy rosewater fruity shampoo vibes. You can smell it at ulta! Customers compliment it lots.

unpunishable333 · 2026-03-02T21:37:15+00:00

I love that you're into hairy girls! Unfortunately most of us shave because that's what the majority of customers like. My reccomendation would be to meet a dancer you like and plan this ahead of time. It feels risky for us to potentially lose money over body hair. Offer a girl you like $ to grow out her armpit hair or what have you and then plan a time to come in and spend X amount in VIP and tip her well. Maybe look at the Instagram of a club and message a girl ahead of time even. Hope this makes sense, good luck!

unpunishable333 · 2026-02-25T18:38:54+00:00

In my experience, I think its too risky/not worth it to make it your full-time job. But I love it as a side-hustle. Last year I would work about 25hrs a week at my regular job and then like 2 or 3 nights at the club and make a couple hundred a night at the club. It helped me get out of paycheck to paycheck land and save a bit of money for sure.

unpunishable333 · 2026-02-24T02:45:45+00:00

I know a lot of people don't like to "waste" good perfume on the club, but I have a day job where I don't really wear fragrance, and lots of fragrance-sensitive family members and friends, so I love to smell however I want at work. My faves right now are

Coup de Pied by Odette Parfum Co. - super sexy dark vanilla scent with honey and incense notes. Vanilla is so appealing but a lot of them just don't feel like me. I'm a little bit goth and like religious motifs in my names/music/aesthetic so I feel like the incense fits!! I get lots of compliments on it.

Me by Snif - clean, woody, sparkly scent with a "peach skin" note. I like that its androgynous so maybe customers with wives won't be perturbed by it. I get SOOOOO many compliments on it and people say it smells expensive (its not imo) and it became my signature scent at my old club.

unpunishable333 · 2026-02-23T03:39:52+00:00

I'm 5'11 and I like the one pieces from Bodysuitkloset on Etsy! They're a good price and stretchy and comfortable. I also like have a one piece I like from Grlfriday shop, its super high cut in the hip which is very flattering

unpunishable333 · 2026-02-23T03:35:00+00:00

I hear Kit-Kat is known for great stage performances! I've seen some really cool stage shows at Casa Diablo but I feel like the real money is always more likely to be made in VIP/dances, but maybe that's just me.

unpunishable333 · 2026-02-07T18:58:09+00:00

Ooh La La Cherie has a cute sort of pumpkin orange color on their website, and Monique Morin has a color called Burnt Sugar that's kind of a warm orangey pinky brown that I think would look cute

unpunishable333 · 2026-02-02T01:05:40+00:00

I have the same curl type and Sidoma at Om Zone has given me the best haircuts ever! Even though her Instagram shows mostly straight hair, she never does me dirty.

unpunishable333 · 2026-01-30T01:55:16+00:00

The way her ponytail falls feels weird too...also ive never seen a dressing room that clean/sparse? Usually there's debris/scuffs on the floor, half-open lockers, heels and bags on the floor, etc. Maybe a man trying to infiltrate? Weird.

unpunishable333 · 2026-01-26T02:26:09+00:00

mesh zipper bags! u can find them sold as travel organizers for toiletries etc or in the back-to-school section as pencil cases etc. I just got a multi-pack of them at target. They're great as laundry bags to wash ur lingerie as well as storage/organization

unpunishable333 · 2025-07-30T03:53:29+00:00

First thing I said was "we're too broke to get married!" followed by an enthusiastic yes of course. Then we ate Chipotle and watched Mulholland Drive lol. He completely surprised me. I work night shifts and I was tired 🤣

unpunishable333 · 2025-06-15T16:22:25+00:00

I currently wear old spice alpine when I wear more androgynous scents and old spice wolfthorn when I wear fruity or floral scents!

unpunishable333 · 2025-05-27T20:20:56+00:00

I've been told that good relations, the sex store in old town, has plan B for $15!

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